By promiscous online i mean cybering and phoning with a lot of different people...some of those relationships have continued offline...I don't know why i do this...when i get upset i want sex..I think i just need attention...can anyone expand on this?
2006-12-23 03:51:51 · 12 answers · asked by selicagt23 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sex addiction is a known problem.
similar to gambling addiction or
other forms of addiction--like food disorders
or smoking.
you can get treated for it. first get some books
and read up on it. then decide how you want
to recover. they even have support groups for it.
and yes, like crack cocaine, the addiction takes
over your life and can ruin it.
2006-12-23 03:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a personal opinion but here it is. Sometimes we chase after sex for attention and the intimate contact of sex gives us that warm, fuzzy feeling of love. The problem is it's not love it just resembles love, it is actually lust. Lust is short lived and that is why we have to keep chasing that dream because lust is a temporary condition which was never meant to last. I am sex addict and in my case I chase sex just for the simple enjoyment of sexual contact and the joy of ejaculation. I have joined a group since counseling does help if you really want help, with all the diseases out nowadays I decided life meant more to me than personal enjoyment if pain, suffering and death were to be the result. You are the only one who can find the right answer for you, you know the answer, you might not want to accept what it is though, that's your first step with any problem honesty with yourself. Remember this you, are your own best friend.
2006-12-23 12:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you understand it fine. You need attention, and you think either consciously or unconsciously that sexual attention equals approval and acceptance. It makes you feel better about yourself, temporarily. In the long run you're going to feel like crap, because this kind of sex is a replacement for something else you're not getting, but you won't learn that until you're ready to.
2006-12-23 11:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a great stress reliever. Also, with the online promiscuity, you've been teasing yourself the entire time and your body's getting tired of it and needs the real thing.
2006-12-23 12:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Robwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's become an addiction. You mention that when you get upset you want sex so my guess is that you are using sex to comfort yourself and need to find another outlet. Good luck breaking this, it CAN be done. Peace :-)
2006-12-23 12:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you open the can of worms now deal with it, Just get yourself many,many,many condoms and enjoyed your life. 2 Things can happend either you'll get tired of it or you get erectile disfunction. Whichever come first just enjoy your life. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-25 17:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It started with ur mind.once u did that,u liked it and of course u want more offline
2006-12-23 11:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are very sexual and need to be doing something sexual all the time. Nothing wrong with you, just appears to be a fetish
2006-12-23 12:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you want me, it's ok, I want you too, I do the same, but I'm not promiscous!
2006-12-23 11:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are u all about sex? What about ur soul? I'm more concerned about my soul.
2006-12-23 12:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋