My husband and i were married last september, and due to financial reasons his father had to move in with us. so...I was 4 months pregnant with our first baby , just married and having my father inlaw live with us. Needless to say it was very stessful on me. 3 months passes and i need my space so i offer to pay for my father in law to move out, so he does. one week later my husband decides he has to help his father and that he can't live alone saying that" if i was still single i could have an apartment and help be there for him"
so we started fighting about his father a lot and then i come to find out at the same time he has been talking to this girl at work. Sending naught text messages back and forth. I comfronted him about it and he lied right to me, so i took it further and got cel phone records and went and spoke to this girl, i'm not stupid you know! so then the **** hit the fan and i basicly told him you wanna move out get out by monday..and he did.
2006-12-23 03:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you asking why he moved out? You kicked him out.
2006-12-23 03:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lot's of understanding replies huh?
Well to me it sounds like you married because you were pregnant not necessarily for love. He had no right to bring your father into your house and insist you like it. His allegiance should have been with you. However if he is talking with other women and moved out to be with his father so easily, I am sorry to tell you he does not love you.
Marrying this man was a mistake for you even though you were pregnant. If he truly loved you regardless of the reasons for fighting he would have found a way to not have his father with you. This was your home and he should have respected that.
Perhaps with time aways from you he will come to find the reason he married you. But if he wants to come back make sure it is for the right reasons.
2006-12-23 04:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is an asshole and doesn't know what he is missing! when i was 7months pregnant i caught my daughter's dad all over this girl at work. and he lied right to my face even though i saw him hugging all over her. i think what the problem was is he was scared for commitment and becoming a father and it was easier to put his attention on another female then deal with reality. so we broke up, and then got back together... but thank god we aren't together now. most men are just dogs and if he is going to leave you in this hard transition, then someone much better deserves you. stay strong girlfriend!
2006-12-23 03:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Heather K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how are you able to be so short sighted...i'm no longer attempting to be impolite, i in my view sense for you. yet this guy has bodily hit you, it relatively is distinctly lots the worst element a guy can do, is obviously conversing to or seeing yet another lady (maximum cancers or no-which btw is a terrible excuse to make as much as see somebody) and hasn't even been usually employed. The question isn't "how do I make it extra powerful," yet extra like "why do I enable him to try this to me." Have some self comprehend and understand that he will additionally try this on your toddler. you are able to desire to guard your newborn. do no longer enable this guy back into your life. Please.
2016-10-05 22:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by kuhlmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he is stuck between you and his father, he feels obligated to his Father to help him and you have let him go by telling him to get out by Monday.
If he was sending dirty text messages it proves intent to cheat, so you are probably better off without him.
2006-12-23 05:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being pregnant, youre unavailable for sex, always stressed and complaining, not taking care of yourself as much, and heavily bloated. If your husband can send someone naughty messages and this girl is game, surely he needs his space. He will come back if he wants his baby.Otherwise, kick him out of your life.
2006-12-23 03:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by mareko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, that guy was a total jerk and didn't deserve you. If he really loves you then he'll come back, if not then it wasn't meant to be. Think about it this way, your free now to do what you want, no more fighting about his father. Life will be much better now.
2006-12-23 03:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Katerina Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He left cuz hes a jacka$$. He so wasnt worth your time or stress. Id do the same thing if i found my guy doing that. Good on ya, love. Dont worry, there's more fish that taste waaaaaaaay better in the sea.
2006-12-23 03:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although I am sure there is plenty of blame to go around. I think the basic problem is that your hubby is a piece of scum.
2006-12-23 03:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....he didn't exactly leave on his own accord...you asked him to and he did....it's a new mariage and a stressful time for all....if you are adult enough to be married and pregnant, then you should be adult enough to handle situations without all the fighting and confrontation......call him and ask to see him....sit and have an adult conversation and figure out what you are going to do...you also have a child to consider...good luck
2006-12-23 03:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋