2006-12-23 03:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by sornchu b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tips :-
1.Be Good
2.Do Good
3.Have Good
A friend is not the one that you choose from a vegitable market.
You just come across some one in life...who is confident about you and you are confident about him. And these feeling come within us naturally.
And seddenly we realise that he is a good friend of yours.
The person you feel confident to tell him everything of you know your good and bad...Can be your good freind.
So just think about him....who can help you saving your sinking boat.
2006-12-23 03:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sonu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very shy and I'm 56 years old. Over the years I've learned that "joining" helps me make new friends. That is, I find a project or activity that interests me - as a volunteer. And that way I can get to know people and they can get to know me without the pressures of "socializing". If you are still in school, you can do the same thing with the extracurricular clubs. The previous answers to your questions include good advice too. So, Merry Christmas to you and your potential friends!
2006-12-23 04:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a "good" friendship and a "long lasting" one, you first have to have a "common denominator", something that you both share a passion for. If your shy, and you don't intermingle with your "peer" group, you need to look at other avenues of adventure where you can meet people of the same mind set. I suggest you start by enrolling yourself in a "drama" class, or course (depending on your age and school status), there you will meet people of similar interest(s) and you most of all, will start to build "self-confidence", which will help you overcome your shyness. A "debating" team is also a good way to meet and make friends. One thing always keep in mind, when you make a friend,loyalty is of the utmost. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 03:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't choose a person and know for sure he or she will end up being your good friend. Try initiating a conversation. Say for instance: :Hey, I really like your jacket." (or) "Cool hat. Where'd you get it?" Then whatever the person says, you continue on with the conversation by saying: "I gotta get me one of those."
Finding something in common alleviates the pressure in befriending a stranger.
That first step is tough, especially if you are shy (like me.) I normally don't strike up conversations, but when I initiate a conversation, those phrases that seem insignificant to you, will be significant to others.
2006-12-23 03:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard i know, my first yewar of school(7th grade, I was homeschooled untill then) it took me like 3 or 4 months to make friends, you just ahve to see what people like find people who like the same things as you, they might even come up to you, just be confident(or atleast try), now I have tons of friends, my 8th grade year
2006-12-23 03:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the book- How to Win Friends and Influence People. To have friends, you must be friendly.
2006-12-23 03:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by northville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open up to others. let them inside and u need to go talk to other tht u normally wouldnt. u never kno wat will happen. they might want to be friends with u. yea shy might always be apart of u but u just have to learn tht ppl will not always come to u. good luck and happy holidays.
2006-12-23 04:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the local pub and buy every1 drinks all night...then realise you dont want any freinds...:(
2006-12-23 03:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try these links.
2006-12-23 03:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by ricochet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them hi how are they doing and always compliment
2006-12-23 03:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by kayla d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋