plz...help me!?

Question

well..
'm just 14 by age n experiencing a lots n lots of problems related to guys....now recently a guy tried to rape me...thank god i was saved!!i try to be far far away from guys but still i face problems.......
what should i do to save myself from such things??
thank you.

Answer 1

Are u realizing that this stuff u r talking about is BIG and very serious????...Do u have people in your personal life that u r close enough to share this with them ????...Also these sick guys need to be punished and repremended for what they r trying to do to young innocent gals like yourself!!!.....Also please try and surround yourself with good role models as that would go a long way......You need to know that u r worth much more than this and that u r not doing anything to bring this upon yourself ......don;t even blame yourself for one second for this ,even if others try to tell u that u r doing something to attract these sick individuals . NOT true at all!!!! It is not your fault!!!!......It is the people who are doing these indecent acts that need to get help and be held accountable for their wrong doings........Do u carry yourself in a confident and an assertive manner and also are u proud of yourself no matter what u r receiving from others ?????......Sometimes if u present yourself in a positive way then majority of the time u will attract only individuals that have the same qualities and vibes as u but it is not fool proof as u will always attract the wrong people no matter what..(It helps somewhat to have a strong and positive self image....... As the world is not that straight forward!!!.... Next time u r caught up in this situation u need confront the individual and tell him stop doing what they are doing and that u will not let him do this to u and also in the meantime practice some karate moves .......Kicking a male where it hurts the most will buy u time to escape and run away from him and make a lot of noise and move your limbs alot......Be good and be safe!!!! FYI: Most predators look for victims that are alone, look down when walking and who are walking in secluded and /or dark places and also aim for females that r not aware of their surroundings or talking on the phone/ searching thru their handbags while walking alone.
Pardon the lengthy reply!!!!!

Answer 2

I dont think the problem is so big as you see that.Or may be you r living in a locality which is facing juvinile delinquency problem.First you need to analyse ur self.What kind of friends do you have?,how many hours do u spend out ?,how aften u need to stay among boys and how do u dress and behave?A slightest flaw in ur attitude can cause a problem for urself because boys,and girls too are much prone to get delinquent in the present era and this delinquency results in harming others specially in case of boys because they r more independent ,bigger, stronger and less sensitive about others feelings.So babe be careful outdoors.Stay with a trusted grownup or a peer group. And be bold and ull see the problem vanishes very soon.Good Luck !

Answer 3

I am not sure which part of the world you are living? I hope you have enough sense of dressing, because wearing a seductive dressing is the first invitation to troubles. Put some black paints on your face and make sure you look ugly enough for any one to think twice before raping you.. your looks must be tempting others to do something evil. You may be the culprit more then others.. unless you live in the place where there are no females.... God bless you.. and help you to fight evil spirits.

Answer 4

looks like u live in some uncivilised part of the globe.. so the best thing i suggest is u just take the first available transport and try to park urself in a place which has guys and girls along with men women and children.........thats safer

on second thoughts if what u say is the truth and a genuine problem, i suggest u speak to ur parents or elder brother or sister or friend about it ... for they are the best protectors as they are around u and can suggest and help u according to the situation prevailing there...

Answer 5

Hi, U r facing a real problem, The most important thing is try to remai in group, never leave yourself alone/un attended, keep a cellphone with you, learn some marshal arts so that u could overcome this situation.
This world is filled with some persons of this sort,
It is important to avoid those contacts, and also try to be very much aloof from guys.
Just avoid going out alone

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Answer 6

if u want 2 save to urself really don't believe on strangers don't make any boy friend u r just 14 dear this is not time 4 making boy friend........thank god u have saved 4rm that boy ,don't go any where in night don't go wd any boy on blind date ....sweetu concentrate on ur study...good luck..

Answer 7

First of all don't dress SEXY to divert the minds of guys toward u. U can try learning martial arts if possible, like cynthia rothrock, linda lee etc....for self defence...

Answer 8

hey what i would do is become a lesbian b/c u seem 2 be having probs with guys and plus gurls give more pleasure anyway do be sad always look on the bright side
luvz always christiana a.k.a twixx email me back

Answer 9

you should go outside from your home in night with your family member.never meet any boy at unknown place without inform your family member/friend.
don't give your phone no.,address to any stranger.
if you take care of these things, you will be safe in future.

GOOD LUCK-your true friend.

Answer 10

to be on the safer side always when you go out take a strong family member or a most trusted friend.