Yeah, we all want friends with benefits but what about when one of you wants more or if you see your friend with someone else and you have a lot of feelings for them...
I personally don't like friends with benefits...if that comes up, then I tell them, I rather have you as a friend and not a lover...
2006-12-23 03:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think its a good idea. Someone always develops feelings for the other and the other doesn't feel the same way. I saw a special on this on "True Life" on MTV. Very bad idea. Its just seems like that person is only good enough to have sex with and not develop a relationship for. Whoever can shut off their feelings of emotion with someone that they are having sex with...I applaud you. There is no way I can have sex with someone and not develop feelings for them...sex is a connection between two people. It should be shared with someone you're in a relationship with. Well, unless, of course you're a porn star.
2006-12-23 03:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No we don't all want friends with benefits. Some not all. this is not something I have ever desired to have. I have a great deal of respect for myself and expect any man i am involved with to have a great deal of respect for me. This type of relationship is not respectful. And someone always gets their feelings involved and ends up feeling pretty horrible. So what are the benefits of just having a sexual relationship? If I were to agree to be treated as a whore, I would expect a great deal of money for my time and energy. And I do not roll like that. God bless****
2006-12-23 03:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have never had friends+benefits but it snds complicated ive thought a/b it but it seems like one of u always has feelings and sum 1 always gets hurt. the only reason ive considered it was wen i like a guy friend and wanted some way to connect with him and be with him and have him c me as more--the other reason was because i fell HARD for a friend of my bro's and wanted him so bad i thought of everyway i could and even would have had the friends+benefits with him just so i could have him even if just in that moment--being in his arms is the best feeling ive ever had and he was kind enough not to try to hook up with me--its a long story i posted a question about it and would appreciate if u would go answer that if you think u can cuz im so confused but i hope i helped answer urs.
2006-12-23 03:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by LAUREN JADE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're no longer a slut. A slut is somebody who has 2 adult males for usual of the week, no longer somebody who has intercourse with one person. My recommendation is that in case you do no longer experience sturdy approximately your self and the area, then don't be contained in the area. all people has a distinctive concept of what's advantageous for them. for somebody human beings FWB is advantageous, different human beings think of that style of relationship is incorrect. Your pal sounds very jaded and attempt to no longer enable different human beings effect you and inform you what you experience is sturdy for you, surprisingly while it includes intercourse. in case you do no longer experience sturdy approximately your self, quit the FWB. Its that straightforward. Oh, yeah, in case you have an pastime/occurring a date with somebody else. end it, whether its momentary with the FWB. purely in case the relationship with different guy could take off, do no longer prefer the greater bags.
2016-12-18 18:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is a stupid idea. You should save sex for the one you love.
2006-12-23 03:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think it's very underrated. What's not to adore about it? You get to stay technically single, but your urges are satisfied, and it's done by someone you know and like, who likes you back! Only those of us who don't want a meaningful relationship will survive as FwBs.
2006-12-23 03:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm with you....Freinds with benefits is a waste of time. I like being in a relationship... I love the whole aspect of it. Good luck to you
2006-12-23 03:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by bwassinger 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah.... friends with benifits is a BAD idea. hearts get broken a lot more that way.
2006-12-23 03:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by wrldzgr8stdad 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-23 03:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I LOVE FWB, BUT I'D RATHER MEET A YOUNG LOVE LIKE YOU AND LOVE HER FOREVER AND MAKE HER SWOON.
2006-12-23 03:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋