I met a boy andwe talked om the phone for 2 weeks and when ifinally got to see him againwehad sex thenwe had sex again the next time we saw each other. But the conversations we had togather was beatiful but then we stoped talking beccasue he said he got locked up he called me twice after that then i never heard or saw him again. i said i hate him with all of my heart but there is still a possibilty that i am pregnant and i still think about him all day i even see him in my dreams and we are so happy togather some nigthts i pray to God that i see and get to talk to him again. I dont now what to do should i go after him or just let him be, even though I said i hate him i think i'm falling in love with someone who is not here.
2006-12-23 02:58:18 · 19 answers · asked by Shawneice B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't say how old you are, but you seem from your writing to be a teenager. In which case it is too bad that you are in your current fix.
Lots of people have sex after two weeks' knowing each other; that in itself is not subject to criticism so long as it is reasonably thought out, and not coerced. Religion may have something to say about that: either against (most strict religious traditions) or for (the Children of God -- and indeed most of the free young people of the '60s -- thought of orgasm as holy communion. And then there the 90s oral tradition, exemplified by the White House and Northern Virginia middle schools. How is one generation to judge the next? One can only advise prudence and caution. And remind every girl that she should avoid sex with a boy unless she has been "properly introduced". (A boy who is properly introduced will not easily run away the next day, or when you fall pregnant.)
You ought to be prepared: condoms would be a good idea, and not just for birth control -- although they're a good idea for that too. You could get an STD.
2006-12-23 03:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what's done is done, but you should have used protection. There are worst things that could have happened to you like getting a STD or even HIV. You need to find out if you are pregnant and get tested for STD ASAP. If this guy is locked up, he is probably bad news anyway. Use better judgement when you meet people and always practice safe sex. Good luck to you.
2006-12-23 11:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser and you fell in love with him. He played you. I don't think the time you know the person matters before you have sex. I have had sex on the first night and everyone of those men have fallen in love with me. But, I am really really good in bed.
2006-12-23 11:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even know where to start with this one... You had only spoken to him before you had unprotected sex? Now you think you're pregnant? Now he got 'locked up' in jail leaving you angry yet you love him and want to be with him? I don't know what the hell's going on here I'm sorry. Where's the rhum bottle?...
2006-12-23 11:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jonny Deez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your letting the moment of sex you had with him control your feelings sit back and think about it real good before you decide you want to go after this person, because if he really like you he would of easely found you.
2006-12-23 11:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not worth being a whore is it?
Here is a little tip - No guy wants to marry a whore. No guy wants to marry a girl who will sleep with a guy the first time she meets him.
Have some class.
2006-12-23 11:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of rough. you chose a route that was for a long term relationship. But dont beat yourself up. You did what you wanted to do
2006-12-23 11:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by bwassinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
already pregnant , then give birth the baby , next time be careful this is life accept it , ill pray for u
2006-12-23 11:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the girl, but the guy needs to improve his game. I would have tapped it on the first day.
2006-12-23 10:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a lot longer than most chicks wait these days...
2006-12-23 11:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋