Okay, well my BFF {a guy} likes me and asked me out yesterday, but I like sum1 else, nd that sum1 else likes me bak. I'm also not allowed to have a BF or date yet, and he wants me to lie. HELP ME!!!!
2006-12-23 02:53:56 · 19 answers · asked by Small Girl = Big Problems 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your BFF that you treasure him too much as a friend to take a chance at messing your friendship up by trying to add a romantic/dating element to it. That way you can communicate to him that you don't want to date him, without hurting him by telling him you don't LIKE him-like him.
And one more thing to think about: anyone who tries to get you to lie to your family is no *true* friend. A true friend, romantic or otherwise, tries to help you be a better version of you, rather than encouraging you to do things in his or her interest that are ultimately detrimental to you.
2006-12-23 03:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Poopy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I lie all the time so lying to me is no biggie!
Anyway, I think you should tell him that you don't feel the same way he does, and that maybe in the future you might have a chance. Then if the other guy asks you out say what you think would be a right answer, and if you really do like him say YES! Don't worry about not being allowed to have a BF, you just go out there and take your chances!
2006-12-24 12:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by desi0231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone wants you to be dishonest for any reason it is time to run away from him or her. Dishonesty will only hurt you in the long run and you will regret the lie you tell a long time if you do lie. Don't let anyone talk you into anything you don't feel is right for you or into lying about anything either. Honesty is the best policy. Many a person has found out this saying is true all too late. Don't be one of them.
2006-12-23 02:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should only go out with him if you like him. And if he has been your a long time, I think he should understand when you say no. And if he wants you to lie to your parents, then I don't think he's a very good guy. Trust me. The same thing happened to me.
2006-12-23 03:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥~gracie girl~♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu gotta explain to the guy that you just like him for a friend and he needs to move on. If he's truly a friend, he will quit trying to get you to lie. That's not good and it's not what friends do.
2006-12-23 02:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by markawfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you told the internet. You only like him as a friend and your not allowed to date anyways. Its okay to not like him. And remember to mention that you still want to be friends and don't wanna let this ruin your friendship.
2006-12-23 03:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not going to lie to your parents, this would cause you more problems than it is worth. And you do not like him as a boyfriend, you like him as a friend and would like to keep it that way. You are obviously to young to have a boyfriend, so tell him that also. God bless****
2006-12-23 03:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no. That is the answer. If he wants you to lie he's not much of a friend.
2006-12-23 02:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should just sit down with him and tell him that it isnt going to work and that you liked somebody else and that person like u but i know he wants u to lie but he is only thinking about himself not u and him. u have to be part of it too.
2006-12-23 03:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by asianfaith97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have enjoyed him longer and if she knew that then you certainly've each appropriate to this factor him. It sounds like she in basic terms likes a gaggle of adult adult males if she in basic terms have been given harm via yet another guy. she would be able to recover from it, this may be an excellent gamble for you to be happy and if she stands interior the way of that, she isn't a real pal. Edit : You reported look at this from her point of view. nicely somewhat, i've got been that woman that likes the guy that likes you maximum suitable pal. approximately 8 circumstances now. Yeah it pisses me off each time it takes place, yet i'm unlikely to stand interior the way of somebody i somewhat care approximately (my maximum suitable pal) in the event that they have an excellent gamble to be happy. If she particularly cares for then you she'll choose for you to be happy. sure it is going to be no longer uncomplicated for her, yet while she sees you happy she'll understand that she is a reliable pal for making you happy. think of roughly it this way, if the area replaced into reversed, does no longer you go with for her to be happy and choose on her to bypass out with a guy whether you had a weigh down on him. you have had a weigh down longer, and he likes you. I understand your pal is going to be dissatisfied, yet once you take a seat and communicate over together with her consistent with danger she'll understand which you particularly choose for this opportunity. My roommates in basic terms went for the duration of the comparable ingredient, two times, and that they are maximum suitable friends and not going to enable a boy stand of their way. somewhat she shouldn't get mad at you for going out with him by using fact its in comparison to you're choosing him over her. If she is a real pal she would be able to appreciate that this may be a shot for you and that if the area have been reversed you will enable her have her shot. Edit 2: Did you ever tell her which you enjoyed him? you particularly could communicate on your pal approximately this, tell her directly up which you have enjoyed him for a protracted time yet her friendship skill greater to you than relationship this guy and if she somewhat would not choose for you to this factor him then you certainly won't. i could additionally upload in there that if she is particularly your maximum suitable pal then she could understand that as quickly as the area is reversed you have given her the bypass forward. somewhat you have the skill to chat on your maximum suitable pal approximately something in any respect.
2016-10-18 22:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋