2006-12-23 02:22:04 · 22 answers · asked by spils 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I like lu lu"s response.
PS maybe I should recipricate.
2006-12-23 02:31:51 · update #1
Not all women do, Its a part of sex everytime I have sex. I would rather give then receive most of the time.
2006-12-23 02:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While there could be numerous reasons -- you don't wash any more, you have a new baby, there's no foreplay, there is stress, you stopped going down on her - but many women just plain misrepresent their sex drives before marriage.
Once they 'get' you, they feel there is no longer a need to maintain this facade.
You gotta find someone with about the same sex drive as you or you are doomed to a lifetime of conflict, frustration, and anguish.
Ask her. Ask exactly why the bj's stopped. Come up with a compromise on how many a week both parties can agree to. And for god's sake stop pushing the back of her head. They hate that.
2006-12-23 02:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You might want to ask your wife this question? I'm sure she would have a good answer for you, It's a two way street. Husbands need to remember that wives don't turn on all by them selves. Men can get turned on watching their wife undress for bed but a woman needs to be held, hugged and kissed all over her body. She needs time to relax and think about sex. You can't attack her 10 seconds after her head hits the pillow. She is still thinking about; did I turn all the lights off? Lock the door? Bring the dog in? Check on the kids? Get it? Also a fresh clean body is always a good idea too.
2006-12-23 02:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not only when they get married that they stop "sniffing the pickle". Most women don't like to give oral to men. I think that they feel that a guy is somehow relegating them to whore status by having them pleasure him in this way. Woman just don't know how much visual stimulation plays into men reaching orgasm. A woman that can perform fellatio correctly is worth more than gold!
2006-12-23 02:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lonely joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I don't know, maybe they become complacent and feel like they don't have to do anything to "earn" your love anymore because they already got you. You know how they say women (men too) stop doing all they USED to do when they were trying to win you over and once they get you they slip off and stop doing all of the little things that got you in the first place.
2006-12-23 02:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because BEFORE you treated her well and after you married, you started taking her for granted. Oral sex is very very personal for a woman and if you are not treating her right that is the first thing to go...trust me I know
2006-12-23 02:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Emme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old joke this reminds me of. How do you paralyze a (man) / (woman) from the neck down? You marry them.
2006-12-23 04:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason for this is, your girl was not really that into it in the first place. If you want a girl to do this, quit trying to marry a good girl and marry a nasty one.
2006-12-23 02:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
they've already got you committed. Just like most salesmen will walk on water to get you to close the deal, once its done they don't even pick up to phone when you call. There's no longer any need to impress you so they figure letting you fcuk them is good enough.
2006-12-23 02:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Achaholic 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
never started in the first place
2006-12-23 06:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋