i lost 1 of my best frendz yesterday her brother told me i wasn't a good influence and a good frend and well my frend she has alwayz called me a sissy gurl and well i guess it true cuz i can't stop crying well i need advice i miss her so much and i still wanna b her frend how can i convince her brother 2 let me b her best frend she is like 1 of my best frendz it feels horrible but this has already happen 2 me w/ other frendz!
So please tell me how 2 convince her brother that i am not a bad frend and a bad influence!!Thanx in Advance!! :(
2006-12-23 02:20:21 · 9 answers · asked by sad 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i don't want a new friend i want 2 b her friend still she is my 2nd top friend in my heart! my 1st top friend lives California and i don't live there anymore!!!
2006-12-23 02:24:19 · update #1
i don't want a new friend i want 2 b her friend still she is my 2nd top friend in my heart! my 1st top friend lives California and i don't live there anymore!!!
2006-12-23 02:24:25 · update #2
he didn't tell me the reasons!
2006-12-23 02:31:30 · update #3
Yes he did he did tell u he told u that u were cussing at him he was testing u and that u were making me mad of not beileving u and he doesn't like ppl who gets in a fight so hes a fraid if we ever get mad and REALLY mad he will be a fraid u will try 2 hurt me
2006-12-23 05:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by <@>:**MIrAndA**:><@ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of convincing the brother, you need to get some help! The reason friends are leaving you is probably because you dump all your stuff on them and bring them down with you. I had a friend that did this to me for a while. You need to grow up and learn to deal with things a little better. Get some help from someone if things are that bad. You will gain friends if you are not projecting a negative image of how bad things are everytime you see them. It hurts others!
2006-12-23 02:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i don't understand is why does he feel that your not a good influence? if it is because your a sissy or because you cry. i think that's foolish of him. she could be hanging out with people that do drugs and break the law. i think i would call him and ask him why he feels this way. if that's his reason then i would point out what i just said. but it could also be because he does not want you bringing his sister down, because she is strong minded and confident, and you being the way you are is depressing.and he does not want what ever your problems are becoming her problems. i guess either ask him and if you feel that you cant. then let it go. find someone else to hang out with.
2006-12-23 02:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this thing honestly...what did you do that the brother thinks you are a bad influence and not a good friend? these things don't just pop up over night.
2006-12-23 02:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure that her brother told you some reasons of why you could be a bad influence. you should concider them and try to polish those rough edges you have. you said its happend before this should let you know that maybe you are bad and changeing would really help you in other parts of your life.
2006-12-23 02:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by delux191jnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to act responsible and say sorry to the brother and your friend. Explain how you really miss her, and will try to be better. If she is mean to you, I hate to say it, but you should find a best friend who cares about you and doesn't call you names all the times. Good Luck and God Bless
2006-12-23 02:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by Al Bhed Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your attitude and show and make him believe that you are a good friend for his sister.
2006-12-23 02:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by leeyawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new friend
2006-12-23 02:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i say that brother is a little B****!!And the advice is u should like change DUH
2006-12-23 09:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥MONEY IS ALL MINE♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋