I've known this man for almost 10 years, and I met him when I was 14 while he was much older. In June we started our relationship back up. Sort of. He acts like he loves me and is always either doing or trying to do nice things for me. The problem is I don't know if he's a very good talker or serious. He lives in an apartment building and the outside buzzers do not work (I know, I've been in there when friends called my cell to say they rang it). He also has a pay as you go cell. He told me he was tired of paying for that cell and he wasn't going to buy any more cards. The problem is I have no way to contact him, and since it's been 4 days since we last spoke, I'm thinking he is just a player. Why else has he supposedly lost my number and can't bother to call to let me know he's ok? He is twice divorced and I am once divorced. He has one girl and one boy who are adults now and I have one of each as well who are still babies. He is happy for me at times, but I am still weary
2006-12-23 01:20:36 · 2 answers · asked by Proud Muslimaah-Beautiful Islaam 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are 24, still a very young woman. Why let a man like that make you feel so bad about yourself. If he does not want to be reached by you or by anyone, he is hiding something. I would not trust such a man. If you are in this relationship for 10 years i think its time you have a good talk with a psychologist or a counseling person to find out why you keep up with this kind of behavior and why don't you find yourself a better more deserving man. I do hope, for your sake, that you will find the courage to leave him and get a better person and get some counseling too.
2006-12-23 02:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Josephine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he may not be a bad person but he's really just a player and stringing you along when it's convenient for him. Move on to someone more stable.
2006-12-23 09:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by jkm65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋