I've known this man for almost 10 years, and I met him when I was 14 while he was much older. In June we started our relationship back up. Sort of. He acts like he loves me and is always either doing or trying to do nice things for me. The problem is I don't know if he's a very good talker or serious. He lives in an apartment building and the outside buzzers do not work (I know, I've been in there when friends called my cell to say they rang it). He also has a pay as you go cell. He told me he was tired of paying for that cell and he wasn't going to buy any more cards. The problem is I have no way to contact him, and since it's been 4 days since we last spoke, I'm thinking he is just a player. Why else has he supposedly lost my number and can't bother to call to let me know he's ok? He is twice divorced and I am once divorced. He has one girl and one boy who are adults now and I have one of each as well who are still babies. He is happy for me at times, but I am still weary
2006-12-23 01:20:02 · 2 answers · asked by Proud Muslimaah-Beautiful Islaam 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Go 4 it honey !
2006-12-23 01:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by The kissman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Babe, if he hasnt contacted you in 4 days and thats unusual then he might be trying to give you the brush off. I might also be wrong. But if i have done my maths right then your only 24-25 years old. Dont be in a hurry to settle down sweetie. I am 34, have 2 kids and have just met the best man, but all the men i have met for the last 10 years are the 'best' men. Just bide your time and have fun. I know its easy to say dont get too involved, but hey, if it all screws up, tomorrows another day, and there is something better coming. Live life and if something makes you unhappy, get rid of it. Be selfish with yourself and make yourself happy. And most of all enjoy your children, they are the only ones who love you totally unconditionally(for a while at least)
2006-12-23 12:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Big red 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋