i had a girl at work i became good friends with recently.she was very nice and easy to talk to.but last week she completely stopped talking to me.she ignores me.i don't know why or what i did.i asked her if she was mad but she said no that she was just in her own bubble.i don't think she was truthful when she answered me.she talks to everyone else but me.everyday i keep wondering what i did for her to be mad at me.what can i do about it?
2006-12-22 22:52:25 · 10 answers · asked by babywanted26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ignore her...
2006-12-22 22:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here ya go. Don't do anything else but this. Wait it out. You just continue to be you. Don't play some silly game and try to act a certain way, because it will just take away from your wonderful self. If you just continue to be the same person that you were when you guys seemed like you were hitting it off, then either she will come back to you, or continue to ignore you. Either way, you will have stayed true to yourself, and that is the most important thing. This advice is not something that is easy to follow. She may never again be your friend the way that you want her to. But I think that if you don't ignore her and just be kind like you were being to her, you have a better chance then if you play some silly game. By the way, it is possible that you did nothing to offend her yourself. Maybe someone stabbed you in the back ,or just simply gossipped about you to her. Maybe there is another girl there that is jealous of her and wants you all to herself, and told that girl to back off. There are so many scenario's that could have occurred. I'd check those before I started believing that I did something wrong. Good luck to you.
2006-12-23 07:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by missin NJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I can't stand people like that....Friends like that aren't really "friends". Who knows the real reason behind her behavior, but to be honest, the other answerers are right, just ignore it. You don't have to be nasty or hostile toward her, just pretend everything is normal and be yourself. I think that would be the most mature approach.
2006-12-23 07:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by : ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do that. I mean I couldn't help it, because when I realized I liked him, I became extremely shy. I ignored him , and stuff, but then that was in 6th grade-8th grade. I don't know what she's thinking.
2006-12-23 07:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to everyone but her. Even people you normally would never talk to, make jokes, smile at everyone else, act as though she is a just a big nasty cockroach on the wall.
GIVE HER NO ATTENTION!
2006-12-23 06:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by don_juan_darko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her. maybe she is trying to play some kinda minds games with you. maybe someone is spreading rumors about you and she believes them. Whatever it is a real friend does not treat someone like this so dont give her another thought
2006-12-23 08:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be short tempered. It very difficult to go long way with them. Try your best to convince her. If not, Play the same game with her, you too try avoiding her. & make some other girl, your good friend in your same office.
2006-12-23 07:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the selfish cow and move on with your life... :D
2006-12-23 06:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't be honest enough to tell you what's wrong, ignore her and don't try to second guess it.
2006-12-23 07:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
2006-12-23 06:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋