I'm not asking if it's right or wrong. I want to know WHY some men get really turned on by seeing or fantasizing about their wife having relations with another man... Is it a female fantasy too? I have to admit, it sounds interesting.
2006-12-22 21:45:32 · 16 answers · asked by Ian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it a very common fantasy?
2006-12-22 21:50:48 · update #1
Yes, it's common. Lots of men and women get off watching their mate with someone else.
2006-12-22 22:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, it is not easy letting go of the only person you have ever loved.And you both has being married for a long time, you forgave her the first time, and she did it again, i think if i were you i will talk about this over with her, find out if she wants out, for what you are saying you still love your wife and it is a good thing that you are willing to let go, what if you forgave her once more and she does it again,,, i think is up to you,,, pray and ask the Lord to guide you and give you strenght since we do not operated on our own-strenght, if that does not work, seek some profesional help and maybe things will worrk out, if she is still hanging around, that means that she stills care and can be a little confused , some times when some women think there are missing some things they go looking for it else-where, so what ever made her do this, twice only God's knows, just do what ever your head tells you to do, nothing -bad, nor harmful just to solve your problem,I think what counts the most in relationship is how conscious we are about our choices towards one another, some people takes for granted what they have, love, compassion trust, family, friends and doing the right, thing. I pray the Lord, give you peace, mercy, grace, guidance, wisdom, And salvation-through Christ on behalf of you and your wife..... Have a good day in the lord...
2016-05-23 01:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because they are bi-curious. Seems every story I have read concerning this, and that's alot cuz I read tons of Penthouse Letters has the husband having some contact with the man. Sometimes not directly but close, like eating her out after the dude came in her.
2006-12-22 21:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would u enjoy fantasing the one u love make out with another person wouldn't that upset u and make u mad? The only thing I would fantasize about is my man no other guy. To me that's a turn off. But that's jus me.
2014-04-12 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by babyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, the turn-on for men is actually about fufilling the womans fantasies. Wanting to see her passion without being distracted. As she enjoying the passion.
2006-12-22 21:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by seaking 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I cannot understand any man wanting to see his wife with another man
2006-12-22 21:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bob D 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its like porn they like to see the act of sex, you know watch your woman get slammed from the back. Dont like the guy just like to see a girl get banged. tried not to be affenive cause i know how sensitive yall can get but had too answer.
2006-12-22 21:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-22 21:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are turned on by any hot women.
2006-12-22 21:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
This is common.
2006-12-22 21:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋