What do you do if you were in my situation, when a friend of urs missunderstands u (PLZ ENTER PLZ)?

Question

I've got a bad habit that it is I NEVER call to ask about some1. So 1 of my BEST friends got mad really bcuz he started 2 think that i'm using him & he started 2 think bad about me.
So when I talked it over with him, I really told him that he is one of my best friends and i really regret that i've got him to the point when he tells me "I don't think we're friends like b4" and i tried every single way to apologize till i seriously thought that i have no pride at all (I believe that there is no pride between friends that's why i managed to lose it) while he's still mad but not like before.

He acts now like it's ok but I know that it's not and all so what shall I do, sometimes i feel like "I'm Not Gonna GiveUp on Him" and sometimes i say "I'm not Gonna Beg Him to 4give me anymore" I'm really confused bcuz i think that it's hard to do the 1st option & I wudn't have any friends if i do the 2nd one bcuz my friends really tend to be with him all the time so what shall I do Now? Please help

Answer 1

talk about it...

Answer 2

I haven't read what others have written on this question yet, but I will as soon as I finish writing this. I think i can give you better advice without reading their comments.

I am also the kind of person that will very rarely pick up the phone and call people. Its not that I'm not interested in them as much as it is a social flaw of mine, although it is probably related to other aspects of my personality and personal situation which I won't go into here. I've gotten my mother upset for failing to call her on a reasonably frequent basis.

That being said, maybe you need to spend some time talking to your friend about WHY don't call very much. If there is a reason for it which has nothing to do with him, let him know. You can't change who other people are. You can only change the way that other people respond to you. Give them a reason to respond differently, and hopefully, they will.

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

For starters, if you've apologised already, STOP apologising anymore.

If you had a bad habit of not asking enough about other people, then learn from it and change.

Stop beating yourself up over it and don't allow your friend to continue to make you feel bad over and over. You've made this mistake, you realise you need to improve, so do so.

everybody has their faults and weaknesses and he's made you aware of yours, I am sure HE'S not perfect himself. But at the very least, do not beg for any more forgiveness. Just let him know that you are aware of your mistakes and will try harder in future to be a bit more aware of others.

Certainly, if he keeps rubbing your nose in it, let him go. No friend should continue doing that, regardless of your mistakes. It's up to him now, you've made your apology.

Answer 4

You have to wait until you feel that's enough. Open your mind for another things. That's life: sometimes you happy and sometimes you sad. You are so happy cause you have health and you are able to use the Internet! You couldn't be his friend if you didn't met him. So let's meet some others! They may be more interesting.

Have a good day!

Answer 5

first off its not ur fault tell him about the never calling thing if it doesnt change his mind hes not really much of a friend and if ur other friends choose one of u to hang with over the other then there not real friiends either

Answer 6

Start talking to him more and paying "special" attention to him. Leave reminders that show that you like him as a best friend.

Answer 7

if u have done everything u could..........then leave it upto ur friend........if ur friend is really a true friend then he will n he should give u another chance...............all the best!!

Answer 8

nothing