I cant sleep tonight. My brand new husband and I went out tonight, along with his brother and he was telling us one thing that happened to him at work: he works in a call center, one of his duties is to change schedules for all reps. One of them, a woman, asked him to have Sunday free and was driving him out of control, apparently. He told her: how much will you pay for that? or will you pay in another form? Then she said she would "do him a favor", my husband then said: "Really? OK, let's go then... he grabbed her, carried her and asked his other workmates to open the door of a small room. Inside, he started to pat her buttocks saying:"now, who's your daddy? say it, say it!"
At the beginning I didnt put much attention to it, now, the thought is inside my head... Is there a chance he's cheating on me? How do I know?
2006-12-22 20:00:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think it then, he is! Go with your gut feelings first and don't end up being the fool!
2006-12-22 20:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a trust issue with women and it is WAY too long to explain. But, to get your answer and straighten him out at the same time, ask him. Simply say, "I dont feel comfortable with what happened the other day with that woman. Is there anything else that happened? And I want you to know that if anything, anything ever happens between you and another women, im out of this relationship (even if this part isnt true, say it to scare him)." Thats all I've got so far!
2006-12-22 20:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is not telling a big fat lie yes he is "cheating" on you he has no right to be feeling another woman's buttocks and he is also guilty of sexual harrasment have you ever known him to tell fabrications or exaggerated stories before? how much had he had to drink before he told the story?he needs help either way but i hope for your sake it is just a problem with wanting to tell the best story of the party and being willing to lie to do so
2006-12-23 05:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told the story with you listening???
I think in this case he described a story where a girl offered sex for a favor but you husband said no and decided to humilate her.
Dont punish him for an sex offer he declined. Next time he will say yes and no story will be told.
i dont konow if he cheats in this occasion he didnt
2006-12-22 20:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Takis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be, he might not. But its so wrong of him to do that to a woman collegue!!! especially he is married already!!!
You should feel not comfortable w that, if i were you, ill bash him already!!
Just ask him straight: Are you cheating on me? then tell him that what he do is very unappropriate.He should know hows ur feeling, this is very important! Ask him too'' how will you feel if i get spanked by a man? will you be okay with it?''
You know what? i bet he will go ballistic! So you should too also!
2006-12-22 20:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt he will...wat his doing though is unreal....i would have told him f... off you slezy bastard. If you can cope without him do it...jsut cause you got a kid(or bout too) desnt mean you wont find someone..who will love you both and except whas happened. i know a few stories that ended up great...after being dumped or alike by the partners
2006-12-22 20:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by ulz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is exactly that. you don't have to have sex to cheat. if your thinking about it in your mind with another person you have already committed the sin. in this case it looks as this has gone even further. I'm very sorry. now do your homework and then leave him. he should be ashamed of himself.
2006-12-22 20:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by shiznick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if has cheated YET but sounds like if he hasn't he is on that road. And even if he hasn't, are his actions alright in your book? Ugh if it were my man I would kick his ever lovin ***, and hers too!
2006-12-22 20:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My partner and i both agree that he probably is cheating on you. If he isn't he will. Did he not find this behavior inappropriate?
2006-12-22 20:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That behavior is not appropriate at all. And you guys are newly married? =/ I would be pissed!
2006-12-22 20:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Virginia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋