2006-12-22 18:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
OK I've been avoiding black men. There's something about black men, not all black men, but many of them, that gives me a major chubby. I don't know what it is- their eyes, their voices, their lips, their physiques? But the problem is if I go out of my way to avoid them or act funny/reluctant around them people will think it's because I'm racist when it’s really because I don’t know the best way to conceal my hormones.
2006-12-22 18:43:36 · update #1
I'm woman. It's just dirty thoughts that I want out of my system.
2006-12-22 18:46:53 · update #2
Pray and ask God for deliverance. May God Bless
2006-12-22 18:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make it seems like once you get around a black man, you are ready to take off your clothes. Slow your roll and be yourself. Don't be closed minded. Like the above poster stated, you may be running from something else. Are you afraid to be in relationship with a black man because of your family or the community? If you are single, try dating a black man. It may be the best move you've ever made.
2006-12-23 12:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Running from your feeling is only going to make it that much worst. As you stated not all African American men are sorry. I do know this, I would say be choosy and go for gold. Who knows you could happen to find what you really want...to be love, and respect. There is still a few good black men out there.
2006-12-22 19:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by lady1lovely 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to go out with a black man, go ahead. Don't avoid them.
But if you're married or something like that, i don't think there's anything else you can do, but continue to suppress the urges, i guess.
2006-12-22 18:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by SweetMahogany 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like black men then try dating one and see what happens. you may like it and stay together or you may hate it and the you will be fine.
It is a win, win ether way.
2006-12-22 18:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Preacher's Daughter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon, embrace post haste! LOL Figure out what your really running from. Is is ostracism from you community or family. Would you want a relationship with one ( or more) ?
2006-12-22 19:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Deezie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Another white girl who can't wait to get some black dick.
2006-12-22 18:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why conceal it, go out and get your black man. then it will be out of your system.
2006-12-22 18:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you man or woman?
well, you know that saying, once you go black, you come right on back.....
i did!
2006-12-22 18:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Steffany E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like it would be easier to let your hormones take control.
2006-12-22 18:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋