My boyfriend is really cute and sweet?
2006-12-22 18:29:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Do you have girlfriends or sister? Start dancing with them. And what makes you think your boyfriend can dance? Most can't.
However awkward you look or feel, he will be worse. Learn together.That's what it's all about. The Hokey Pokey.
2006-12-22 18:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lorenzo Steed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greetings, what a nice decision you have because you have options, options will give a young lady wonderful powers of confidence to move forward in all decision making, now and in your future to come.
And, besides that, decisions give you time for pratice when you are starting out in the world.
In time it is a little bumpy at first, but it just gets better and better with each new
situation that will come your way and some will be more nervious than others.
You will need to ask yourself do you really want to go(?) ...even if you can't dance ...yet.
If you can't dance you need to tell him before you accept his invitation to take you.
Some guys like to know details like this in advance so that if you both show up at the dance he won't be caught off guard when you spring it on him that you can't.
That's showing respect for him...I hope he will recognize it !
If he really likes and respects you and wants to be with only you...its possible that both of you will be at the dance sitting at a table or just standing around and still have a very wonderful evening together and maybe with your friends (including some who may not be able to dance either, who knows...).
There is just something about a good dance that make people want to dance. If he does ask or gently encourages you to dance with him and you feel comfortable with him in doing so, that will not only be a clue for you to try but it will also be your confirmation into your own insight and wisdom about him, that he is truly ...as you say, cute and sweet !
As a Paw Paw of five grandaugthers of my own I wish you the very best and I do hope the two of you have a most memorable evening together.
Bless you, in all that you do...forever.
2006-12-22 19:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a pair of strappy sandals with one strap "ready to go". While you are sitting at the table point out that the strap actually "went" but "Isn't it amazing" because you just happened to find thick, sturdy elastic band in your purse. Affix that to your shoe so that it won't fall completely off your foot when you walk back to the car AFTER the dance is over. Repeat this procedure anytime and everytime he asks you out anyplace where dancing may be involved. Bear in mind, though, that you will only get away with this a few times before you will need to "doctor" a brand-new pair of sandals. On second thought, this may end up becoming prohibitively expensive... er... why don't you just ditch the boyfriend right now and save yourself the trouble (and the expense)?!
2006-12-22 18:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wiggle your toochy and wave ur arms around.
Ok thats a joke, dont ever do that...
Well it depends what kind of music it is....but im not gonna give u lesson here...
I guess my best advice would be to dance however u like, even if u look rediculous and then u can laugh at it later and thats always the best part of any date...well, besides the...u no, haha...
2006-12-22 18:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by hersheyshayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 30 and I can't dance. Its not what you look like when your up there shaking it with your boyfriend it how much fun your having and how happy your making someone you love .
2006-12-22 18:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Chev1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask other people to teach you and if they cant just tell him your not very good at it..if he is the sweet kind of boyfriend ur saying he is he will understand but you should still atleast try to dance but dont make a fool of yourself...
2006-12-23 03:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by heidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you broke your ankle and can't dance but you can go....lol jk
ummmm just look around and see what most other people are doing and go with the flow....or just only dance on the slow songs....have fun at your dance! :D
2006-12-22 18:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by tomboychick735 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question .see learn dance by watching some romantic move or say to ur guy & i am sure he will understand if u tell him he might teach u
2006-12-22 23:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him lead you ( let him think he can be a leader) and try not to bump into other people. And smile. Nice way to discover whether you have a chemistry going there
2006-12-26 11:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem a few years ago at homecoming. I just told that I didn't really know how. He was fine with it and he just helped me.
2006-12-24 05:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by martinse08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋