Isn't wrong to bring a child into this world KNOWING they will be denied a father.
If i were to go ahead with it, would i have to do the real thing? I don't want to go to the doctor, can get a guy friend to donate and turkey-bastor it? Does that really work? Will i go straight to hell??
2006-12-22 17:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by semperfi 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The questions you need to answer in terms of having a child aren't whether it is okay to deny the child a father. Millions of kids don't have a father for one reason or another. They survive. The questions are, can you give the child all the love it needs to thrive in this world? Can you afford a child? This includes the cost of pregnancy check-ups, delivery, food, diapers, doctor's bills, the whole nine. Do you feel you are ready to give up your life for a child? I mean are you prepared to say "No, I can't go out, I need to be home with the baby?".
As far as getting a guy friend to donate sperm, a lot of people do it. However, sometimes the guy then wants to be a part of the child's life. That's why my girlfriend and I are going to a sperm bank. Yes, the turkey bastor can work, but you need to buy ovulation kits, to know when you should put the sperm in you.
You won't go to hell. My belief about God is that He created us all, knowing how we would turn out in sexual orientation. He loves us all anyway. I hope this helps. Good luck!
2006-12-23 02:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mama23Girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a guy donate his sperm, you'll still need to have him legally revoke any rights to that child, or else he could still try for custody. One way it's through a doctor. The other way is through a lawyer. As for the turkey baster, it's probably the least likely method possible to try, but it could maybe work. As for the hell part, that depends on how you raise the child and if you believe in hell to begin with...
2006-12-23 03:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have one...my son is 17 years old loves woman...never had any problems in school and has recvd a full basketball scholarship to one of the big ten schools so the question is can you afford a child. donot listen to the bs people say that a gay person cannot raise a child with another woman...hell more children from same sex homes are more sane than "real" marriages.
2006-12-23 12:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by notnicebut_naughty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want one? if so can you support one? and if so there are many ways for you to have a child. It's your choice.
2006-12-23 04:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by gruntzgurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my sister and her gf are thinking about adoption, I think it's great, there are so many parentless children out there
2006-12-23 04:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Yulia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋