I am in a wonderful relationship and would never lower myself to cheating (never have & more evolved than that), but cannot stop flirting for the life of me - is it so built into our nature to turn off? The lovely female form (black, brown, white, whatever) is just to awesome to turn away from.
2006-12-22 17:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by whitney 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
O, You think it's cool , well I think that is your way being in total control, maybe you need that kind of control in your life, and that is not right , because you can be misleading to someone and hurt there feelings and they might react in a way you won't like , maybe in a way of sexually harassment, will that full your big ego you got going on and If you really love that person you are with, you will save the flirting for her !
2006-12-22 17:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by jakhiamylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends how your flirting. Some flirting is harmless while other kinds of flirting may be crossing the line.
As long as your partner is ok with it. If something you do bothers your partner then you should stop whatever flirting your doing.
Me, personally I'll be upset if my partner flirted but if its just teasing and I know they are not being serious then I'll be ok with it BUT as long as IM around..... if theres flirting and my partner refuses to tell me, then it could be a sign the flirting may be more than that.
2006-12-23 02:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by tashasw79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a loser if you flirt, but you could lose someone you love if your flirting hurts or angers them enough. What has priority - the flirting or the relationship?
2006-12-23 01:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to "look around". Flirting might cause problems but I wouldn't say it makes you a loser by any means.
2006-12-23 01:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by columind99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. All I can say is there's nothing wrong with Flirting just be sure that when you chose to be with your mate, don't go around Flirting anymore because then he/she will think that your cheating.
2006-12-23 01:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in a fantastic LTR and my woman is the best imaginable match for me. i'm a ridiculous flirt. with everyone! men, women, old, young (at least 18i'm not a pervert). it's just how i communicate. i have no desire to be with anyone else, i just touch peoples heads for a living and make tips based on how much they like me (i do hair). i think that started it 18 years ago.
2006-12-23 01:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is not having sex with - flirting can be healthy and harmless. Just as long as you stop with the flirt.
2006-12-23 01:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to appreciate the opposite sex, it's human nature, not to a extreme;(Not to act out on the flirtation in a physical manner) not to act out on it. If u act on it, then u got big problems with your relationship
2006-12-23 01:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think flirting is ok. It's proven to raise self-esteem levels, and if you must flirt, do it! It's not that bad.
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-23 01:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by Short and sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. Flirting is healthy and good for your ego...as long as that's as far as it goes..I don't see a problem.
2006-12-23 01:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋