I need help because i really like him and i don't want to act all dumb but i don't know if he likes me. How do i tell? How do i ask him? how do i act if he says no? i need help so please help me!! PLEASE
2006-12-22 16:51:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him, if he said he can't then switch to the other objects, start the fresh new normal conversation XD
2006-12-22 16:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always go for the direct approach although it is the most difficult to do. Just tell him how you feel and see what his reaction is. Tell him by saying that you find him attractive and are interested in him but you do not know if he feels the same and that you feel really awkward asking him. Just be honest. That way there is no miscommunication. You may not want to hear what the answer is but at least you will know. If he says that he is not interested in you then just appreciate his honesty and let him know that. If he is any kind of "real man" and has no feelings for you then he will be very tactful and respectful of your question. If you get a jerky answer then move on.
2006-12-23 00:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by OrangeCharlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in school,then have one of your friends give him a note asking him.When he says no,write okay on the note,and give it back to him.Don't let him see that it affected you.There are THOUSANDS of guys out there...he's not the only one,and I can assure you,one day you will find a guy out there that will be the one to ask YOU out,and you won't have to worry about rejection.Play it cool "if" he says no.You don't want to get all upset over some guy when it's obviously his loss.Move on,and you'll realize that that will make you a whole lot happier.Good luck!
2006-12-23 01:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to find out if he likes you he has to get to know you first. Call him and say" I've been wanting to go see this movie,try this restaurant a friend recommended, or check out this gym (call ahead to see if they have passes for potential members) and was wondering if you'd be available to accompany me." If he says yes then ask him what day would be good for him. If he says no, put him on the spot & ask him "Is it my approach or is it me?I was trying to ask you out on a date so we could get to know each other better."
2006-12-23 01:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime when you two are talking ask him if he would like to go have coffee. one way to tell if he is interested is by his facial expression. if he says no try not to take it personally,and move on. but usually if a guy is interested they will go out of their way to get together with you.
2006-12-23 01:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you r a hot girl tell him where u live and say pick me up at 8 tommorow or something like that and if he says no say its your loss
2006-12-23 00:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say "wanna go out for coffee" or somethin thats all it doesnt have to be so complaicated
2006-12-23 00:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by blue_frog_gy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋