My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and we have been having sex unprotected for at least 3 1/2 of them . . . I am 24 but he is 28 and we are wanting to start a family but I can't seem to get pregnant and we have tried the laying there and not sitting up thing and different positions but it isn't working and I'm getting frustrated. I was frustrated in the past and started wanting it less and less and now my hormones are back up and it still seems helpless . . . Help please!! Anything particular to eat or positions to try or anything at all!!
2006-12-22 16:43:21 · 21 answers · asked by martaraepa 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
They say on average most couples become pregnant within a year of trying to concieve. Since you haven't I would suggest going to Dr. and getting blood work and a physical done. Have your boyfriends sperm count checked and make sure you both are fertile and you are able to concieve. You may just not be doing it the right time or under the right circumstances etc....There's lots of reasons why females don't become pregnant even if they are ovulating, but if it's been 3 or more years it time to see a Dr!! Good luck to you both<3
2006-12-22 16:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~A~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one say the 'D day' of fertilization. So have intercourse in tension free mind. Male on top position or female laying with legs apart the the corner of the bed and male on standing/leaning pose may help. Select the days from day 8 to 21 after periods and have some long fore-play (with some BF movies on) so that the sperm can be ejaculated in maximum speed. Best of luck.
In case you fail, consult a OBS/GYN and have check for both.
2006-12-22 20:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After sex, try lying with your legs straight up in the air, with pillows underneath your hips for atleast 10 minutes. I have heard alot of people say this works. Any position is fine, but the positions that work best are the ones where gravity isn't pulling on the female, so the aprem stays inside of her longer. You can also try buying an ovulation kit. I've heard people say they work pretty good as well! Good luck to ya and best wishes!!
2006-12-22 16:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Me_Myself_&_I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer extremely understand... are you asking if a woman who's presently pregnant, 3-5 months alongside, can get pregnant with a 2nd toddler for the duration of the comparable being pregnant? if so, no that isn't achievable by using actuality that the cervix/uterus is closed off (mucus plug and whatnot) If however you mean a woman who's had a toddler 3-5 months earlier, sure it somewhat is achievable to get pregnant lower back so quickly after having the toddler.
2016-10-18 21:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jordans'smom is right! you should get married first and them try to have a baby. If you guys have been together for 4 yrs, you will probably do well in your marriage. I think that it's better if your kids are born inside a married more stable relationship, rather than a gf, bf relationship. And yes, go to the doctor to check what is the problem that way you don't get frustrated! You will know exactly what to fix and get it done.
2006-12-22 17:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by femeninegirl00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to the doctor if you are having these problems and are seriously thinking about getting pregnant.You have to get all the avenues checked out. They will start testing your boyfriends sperm and move on to your hormones (blood test on the 3rd and 27th day after your period) They will check to make sure you ovulate, then they will do x-rays on your fallopian tubes to make sure everything is open. That is saying simply that you have no problems as they test through. Just the steps that are takin.
2006-12-23 03:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by loulou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young keep trying, have patience and most of all faith . I'm 20+ and have a 15month old, been pregnant 3x;I learned something from experience and my Ob/Gyn that you should lie down with your hips and feet up on pillows for 20 minutes after intercourse. It will aid the sperm to reach your cervix. Gravity is your worst enemy when trying to conceive. Try having sex every other day that way he can rest and boost his sperm count. Do your thing in the morning, when his count is at it's highest .
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2006-12-22 17:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea_angel_darling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to see a doctor. There could be fertility issues with one or both of you. Also, there is unexplained infertility which is the most frustrating. The doctor can check your hormone levels and see if you are ovulating and a semen analysis can check his sperm count and the health of his sperm. Good luck to you both!
2006-12-22 16:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by OrangeCharlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get married first? Sperm flow to the egg better when there is a ring around your finger. And if that does not work, then go to the doctor - both of you.
2006-12-22 17:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by jordansmom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
FIRST IF YOU ARE LIVING WITH YOU MOTHER ARE FATHER AT HOME AND GET CAUGHT YOU WANT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THE BOY FRIEND WILL TAKE A JOY RIDE AND WANT RETURN AND YOU WILL GO IN THE HOSPITAL FOR A 30 DAY STAY.NOW IF YOU ARE JUST LIVING TOGETHER FIRST GET MARRIED BY THE JUSTUS OF THE PEACE FOR LICENSE AND BLOOD MAKE REAL BE KIDS. PLEASE LET THE BABY HAVE A REAL NAME TO COUNT ON THAT IS ALL IT GOT
2006-12-22 17:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋