Thanks for your opinion!!!
2006-12-22 16:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't stop being a friend..a user is a desperate person with low self confidence...after you have been used once & know it just do not get in that situation again...if someone uses you to go somewhere special or just to gain favor...simply be busy or don;t think you'll be able to oblige...after a couple of these they will get the message....if they are using you they must value you & think you are something special...and we all are good luck
2006-12-22 16:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by artie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are rather empty people and have a mind centered on what they want, not really about other people. A lot of us could be accused at some point of using someone I guess, but to be a real "user", that just shows up the person as having no real depth to them at all.
2006-12-22 16:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand people who use people but then again I had people live under my roof before and just used me for a place to stay because they had no bills to pay....
So my opinion on people who use people is lowlife scums who need to learn to treat other people the way you want to be treated.
2006-12-22 16:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by navy_seabee_wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfish. Normally people like that have some serious psychological problems. They get their kicks of of using people because it makes them feel good about themselves. Anyway, it is short lived because what goes around, comes around.
2006-12-22 16:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its awful! I got a friend who used 2 ex husbands, and she has 3 kids. And now she uses me. She gets what she wants. All that i can say is that what goes around comes around.
2006-12-22 16:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by stylingsarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both parties are doing the using, then no-one gets hurt. People who use and take advantage of others knowingly are scum.
2006-12-22 16:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Liberty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they're very mean and they're being selfish. I think everyone should think about how they would feel if someone was doing the same thing to them. That's how i base my decisions. I ask myself that question all the time. apparently someone like that wouldn't really care about the other person.
2006-12-22 16:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by sweettreasures9 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People who use people are ignorant in my book. Now if it's a "you scratch my back and I scratch yours" situation, that's different. But if only one party is benefiting from the union, then it's wrong!!!
2006-12-22 16:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by elove315 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to know one person who can honestly say theyve never used someone else. i think we all do to a certain extent.
2006-12-22 16:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by chris l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends if they use you. The only people that use you should be your employer.
2006-12-22 16:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋