2006-12-22 16:01:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Let me state a fact of life to you. We come to this earth ALONE and we leave this earth ALONE. so, quit the fantasy of being amongst cheerleaders all the time. However, human is a social animal and it can't live in a solitary confinement, otherwise you wont' be living in a city. Just respect and help your neighbors, talk to them anything normal and always respect their beliefs without necessarily agreeing with them all. Just be democratic and diplomatic about your life and don't be sad being alone, because everyone else is alone in this world. Those who think they are not, are doing nothing except deceiving themselves as they will find it out in a later stage of their life.
2006-12-23 05:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Amir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through the 10 - 15 min. daily practice of
Mindfulness Meditation. It is very similiar
to the mindfulness of Breathing, which
is also good for one's heart.
Mindfulness Meditation erradicates worry,
stress, anxiety, lonliness, fears, anger,
impatience, and insecurities. And it has been
proven to be Very Effective in these areas,
as well as to increase cognitive thinking,
memory, concentration and focus. Proven by
Scientists, Medical Doctors, and Cogvitive
Behavioral Therapists throughout the world.
One of those doctors that has proven this is
Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn PhD. He has an excellent
book out called: "Coming to Our Senses."
From an R.N. with a Masters Degree.
2006-12-22 16:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to feel lonely. Many people have heart problems.
We all have a life to live and you may shorten yours by introspection if you wish.
My advice is to live every day as it comes and not worry about heart problems.
My husband has had many heart problems for years and is still living life to the full. He is 74.
2006-12-22 16:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about grief recovery? It sounds to me like you have some grief issues about yoru health and your loneliness. Sadly, how we learn to deal with stuff iin our youth is counterproductive to feeling better. There are better ways. Check out www.grief-recovery.com.
You have choices. Do you have kids? Do you have friends? Do you have hobbies? What do you care about? Who cares about you? Don't lie to them and tell them the "you are fine!" Start being honest with yourself and with them.
There are ways to make your life better...but it has to come from within you. There is no one and nothing outside of yourself that can make you feel better in the long term.
58 is still young. Allow yourself to live.
2006-12-22 16:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by huckleberry 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel lonely, I'm 59 with high blood pressure and looking at diabetes. Can't let things like that ruin my life! Got things to do, places to go, and people to meet!
2006-12-22 16:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tweet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello Blanch. God will help you! Please don't feel lonely because he is with you...He is always with you!
There are many things you can do and start with a Happy state of mind!!!
You are not Alone and never have to be.
Pray! Your answer will come: )
2006-12-22 16:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a mail order bride from the Philippians.
2006-12-22 16:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by woo-lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋