My brother has found out that his partner has been up to stuff with another man, he asked her to leave, & she did; He has been grieving over this & i have been supporting him by staying over.She doesnt seem to be able to accept personal responsibility, so she hassles him & wont accept the fact that he doesn't want to be with her any more, he has had to pull out of a mortgage at the last minute; She also manipulates him, by putting guilt trips on him by bringing up pathetic past incidents, such as oh when we first met, after three weeks, you slept with another woman, trying to take emphasis off her stuff. Now she came round last night drunk to high heaven with one of her loud mouth friends demanded that I get out of the house that she paid the rent on, from money that my brother earnt for doing some work for her parents. This situation happened at 3:30 am, when my brother was in bed after coming home from a works do, drunk himself, so he was at his most vulnerable,
2006-12-22 15:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
not to mention that her brother has been staying with them rent free, for the past 2 years, i had the 3 of them giving me loads of drunken verbal, as I dont drink, what can be done about this as my brother is a nice man & people seem to take advantage out of that. I dont want to involve myself, however, my brother needs support, I can see that she is a worm who does not truly care about him, only herself & her mouthy sponging brother,
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Just to mention ,my brother was only dating her, & not actually in any type of relationship with her, when he slept with another girl, it was afterwards when they started to commit, & she lays claim to the fact that well if your dating me you should be commited, she has bought this up on numerous occasions in the past, then she turns round after four years and does this. he has also suffered from depression in the past
2006-12-22 16:04:55 · update #1
p.s. their dad is c.i.d, ( a police man etc)
2006-12-22 16:06:09 · update #2
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2006-12-22 15:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Uri b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds like a real piece of work. And I know that you love your brother and that you are trying to help, but your brother needs to make his own decisions. And to tell you the truth, it does sound to me like that girl is really hurting. I hate cheaters. But I do know that nobody is perfect. And if your brother does decide to forgive her or to try and work things out, you need to respect his decision, no matter how much you disagree with it. Let your feelings be known- once. Leave it there and let him do what he needs to do. If they are meant to be, it's going to happen weather you like it or not. And on the same note, if it's not meant to be, it won't happen. Just be a good brother and be there for him as many times as he may need you. Thank you for loving your brother this much!
2006-12-22 23:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Ignore her. As best as you can. You don't need all that melodramatic crap. Your brother is better off without her, she sounds very immature.
If she keeps on hassling, get a no contact order against her. I am a woman, and really tired of other women making us ALL out to be freaks!
Sit back, relax, ignore Ms. Sassy!
2006-12-23 00:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whos name is on the lease? Who owns the house?
Call the cops and have her removed then if this continues get a restraining order and if she violates call the cops and she'll get the picture.
2006-12-22 23:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by dragonslayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hassles you, call the police. I think you should distance yourself from your brother's problems. Good luck
2006-12-23 00:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There seems to be a lot of pain and anger. It's obvious what you should do, let him work out his own.
2006-12-22 23:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by ceresandzenobia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur brother to forget about her and find himself anther decent woman
2006-12-23 00:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by samer a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like he still wants her and she wants him.... if you get too involved whern they make-up you will be the one out of your bro's life.. good luck dude
merry christmas
2006-12-22 23:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police tell them she's harrasing you seriously
2006-12-22 23:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ORDER OF PROTECTION --STAY AWAY -IF HE GETS THIS THE POLICE WILL AREST HER --DAD CAN,T STOP THE ORDER
2006-12-23 00:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋