can you help!!!!!!?

Question

my partner has just left me because of what my mum thinks about her, mum thinks that she is a lying ***** and doesn't tell me the truth all the time, I just couldn't keep something like that from her at all and now I feel bad.....she said "your mum got what she wanted" and that was us to be apart,.......I had found the one for the rest of my life and now I dont know what to do, mum thinks its not her fault though so god only knows...please dont give stupid answers like get pets because I already have some, and hobbies so dont be stupid, I need some serious advice because I dont know if I could ever start with anyone again....because I had found THE ONE...

thanks for being serious
Mitch

there was no way I could keep something like what my mum said from her, I just could never lie to her...but telling the truth has got me no where now...she (Laura) also said that she was happy for me to take the lead and organise things but in the email she sent me today when she left me she said she hated it,,,,so I just dont know what to think or what to do, I feel so so low right now and want the world to end

Answer 1

I'm sorry for the pain you're going through. The best thing you can do for yourself now is to give yourself a little time to heal, and then start meeting people again. When you do start dating, don't ever let your mother meet any of your girlfriends. Your mum obviously wants you all to herself, and she will continue to ruin your life if you let her. Once you become serious again, you need to let your partner know what your mum is like, and then be prepared to do whatever is takes to protect the one you love from being hurt by your mum. It's the only way you'll be able to have a normal life. I speak from experience, because my husband has had to do this with his mother, because she is a lot like yours.

Answer 2

Unless you plan on marrying your mom tell her to butt out. If you really love Laura then you should try sticking up for her. You need to start making your own mistakes and if you are only going to get half way your neva going to get anywhere.
Tell your mom that no chick is perfect and that you can only work on a relationship. You need to say sorry to laura, evens if you dont get back together in the end.

Answer 3

Mitch I hate to tell you this but you caused the whole thing. Your Mum told you that so you could be aware of it,not to turn around and tell your girl! It does sound like there was no future with this lady anyway.

Answer 4

had u tried a serious talk with your mom about her hidden thoughts about ur partner? usually this works and can clarify the ambiguity; whenever had u and noticed that your partner will fight to gain you and the relation with u , because i only noticed how much ur partner means to u but i did not noticed whether ur partner was ready to fight in order to retrieve u ...
check again with ur mom and find the hidden points that she see it and u not , at last ur mom is more experienced in life than u and can notice things u dont notice it ....hope this will let u acheive peace of mind...