2006-12-22 15:30:52 · 44 answers · asked by mcam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
got kids? if so, no. if not do what ever you want I don't care really if you ruin your marriage, your life, or the life of your husband. I don't even know you. why would I sit here and pretend to be concerned?............... I wouldn't.
2006-12-22 15:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with people now adays, doesn't anybody have any morals.? No you should not go, even if you are not happy in your relationship with your husband, you need to try & work it out with im. You took vows with this man, & it should not be taken lightly. You need to be sure that you have given 100%, & then aniother 10% for good measure, & seek help if he isn't satisfying your attention crave, but, don't go behind the mans back, & meet up with another guy, even if it isn't sexual, it could turn out to be, & that is a nasty mess in the end. DON'T DO IT!!!!!
2006-12-22 15:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!
Don't talk to this phone guy again unless you want your marriage to be over!
Talk to your husband about what you are needing from him, and see if you can get some help, but don't hurt your husband with this information.
Trust me... it's a fantasy now, but it will ruin your life if you pursue it. If you want out of your marriage, then get out first.
You will always have to live with the knowledge that YOU cheated on your husband, and YOU broke up the marriage... that's not something to be proud of!
2006-12-22 15:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When are you women going to realize that all men basically are the same. He must not respect you that much knowing that you are married and still pursues you. Think about yourself and respect for yourself. A man that pursues a married woman is insulting the very core of you, what do you really think he thinks of you knowing that you are being unfaithful to your husband to be with him. Do you think he would ever really hold you dear to his heart, maybe for one thing and one thing only. I wish women would stop being so foolish, lets all ban together, because if it were not for us, men could never cheat. Why don't we stand together as women of all kind, and support each other instead of being lead into all this crap.
2006-12-22 15:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UH! NO! Unless you are ready for divorce. Don't keep secrets from your husband tell him about it.......Or is it that you cant tell him because you already know it's wrong. And you are looking for some one to justify what you want to do so that you wont feel bad.
PUT YOUR SELF IN HIS PLACE.
Do you really want to commit adultery. Do you want your family to know what you did. Think about the consequence of your actions and how it will affect everyone around you know. Cuz you know if you see him you will end up in bed with him.
2006-12-22 16:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Domingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not only jeopardize you marriage,You will be putting yourself in danger.A phone relationship is no different than a on line relationship.You only hear what they are saying,and what they say probably sounds good.But what do you really know about them?Do you really want to find yourself in the home of a rapist,pervert,abuser?I hope not.DON'T GO.
2006-12-24 11:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you should not meet him. If you are unhappy, talk to your husband. Get counseling. If you don't want to work things out, divorce him. You have no right to do what you are doing. You are cheating on your husband, even if it is on the phone and you need to face the music.
2006-12-22 15:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to end one of your relationships. Even just having an "over the phone" relationship is cheating. If you are emotionally investing yourself into this person, then you are having an affair. So, if you want to meet this person, then you have to leave your husband.
Choose!
2006-12-22 15:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are looking for someone to give you permission to do something you already know the answer to. Save your husband a lot of grief and divorce him. Why does he deserve someone running around on him. Even if you have not physically cheated on him you have already done it mentally.
2006-12-22 15:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not and further more you shouldn't be talking to another guy in that manner. Love your husband after all you married the guy. Would you want your husband to do it to you. Of course not...you would be sitting at home crying with hurt.
2006-12-22 15:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Clara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say this, the grass is NOT all greener on the other side, don't do it, it's not worth losing your life, family, and husband over. You didn't get married to your husband to cheat on him, stay faithful and fight the temptation.
2006-12-22 15:33:08 · answer #11 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋