i found(no i was not snooping,i had his permission to print something) an e-mail from an old gf on my husbands account.it was just sent and unread by him and i deleted it.this it what it said tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if you did give me the cold shoulder.your kids are so big! mary. my husband never told me he ran into her but he must have had his 2 girls from his first marrage with him from her comment.i know this seams like no big deal but my husband left his 1st wife for her and they have a long history together.she has a profile on match.com so i know shes single and looking.so my questions are it sounds like he ran into her in like a store or something and they just said hi so why would she follow it up with an e-mail?what do you think she ment by "giving me the cold shoulder?"
2006-12-22 15:11:01 · 14 answers · asked by tammymartin0978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know he gave her the cold shoulder but his 2 girls were with him,what if he had been alone without the girls to "report him"
2006-12-22 15:31:46 · update #1
I'd say you have nothing to fear. Giving the cold shouler would be that he was frigid to her in personality and he was pretty off putting. That is good news for you!
What you want to do is look in the sent menu and see if he wrote her anything. If it was closed he may not have read it BUT he may have seen it there. There is also a way to have an email listed on some accounts like excite as unread even though you read them. Maybe you should say something to him about seeing it and "accidentally deleting it" as though it was spam.
2006-12-22 15:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by BrianBucks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I'm not a guy but... I would have replied to her email and let her know she was walking on thin ice when it came to talking to my man... you husband has nothing to hide if he let you into his email account to get something... then you found chicks email she sent. No big deal I think him giving her the cold shoulder says a lot and he may think of her as a trouble maker and plans to stay clear. They didn't manage to stay together says volumes to me as far as it didn't work between them... talk to him about the email... I doubt he would be mad that you deleted it... tell him it was an impulse... good luck!!!
2006-12-22 23:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what it said in the e-mail your husband gave her the cold shoulder, that means he loves you and is not sneaking around on you. So what if he met her, don't you run into old friends sometimes?Don't lose confidence in your relationship. Keep the communication and love going. good luck .and happy season.
2006-12-22 23:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, he isn't interested but she sounds like she might be the type who likes forbidden fruit, after all you said he left his first wife for her. The question is why did she feel like she had to e-mail. Keep an eye out for the trouble making skank.
2006-12-22 23:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you should be too worry about this episode. He's giving her the cold shoulder because he does not want to damage his marriage. Count yourself lucky! Other guys would have fall ga-ga over her.
2006-12-22 23:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he blew her off, I agree. But, how did she get his email addy? Sounds like she's still trying to get something going, otherwise why the follow-up email? I'd keep an eye on her.
2006-12-22 23:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by sxseaustin1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me you have nothing to worry about he either realize she mess up something he had before and he wasnt going to let that happen again with you you have a changed man trust him
2006-12-22 23:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't cause problems when there's none. Just keep your eyes and ears opened. IMO if he was interested he would have talked to her while his children were around. Also, if he was hiding anything, you wouldnt have access to his computer.
2006-12-23 00:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe like you said they just ran into each other and he act like nothing at all, so don't worry, you are in your right to ask him if she keeps sending him emails, because maybe she is the one wanting more attention from him, just make him feel that you trust him, but you don't trust in her.
2006-12-22 23:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Cobrarette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww..I don't know, but you have to watch out for those single bitches, they will try to steal your man in a heartbeat, especially if they have had a "past" together. If I were you, I would confront him w/the email and ask him about it. You are married, so he shouldn't get upset w/you, you have a right to know. Believe me if it was my husband, I would definitely ask him about it. Good Luck!!
2006-12-22 23:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by ronisizefan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋