2006-12-22 14:41:28 · 18 answers · asked by ANDY T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You divorce...and the two of you act mature, and don't play stupid games through the kids trying to get back at each other.
It's not hard, but it sure is rare...
2006-12-22 14:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never stop loving the children that's a given.And if there is fighting between the adults than it is damaging to the kids and will be better if you go different ways but always put the kids first you dont have to be living with your child 100% of the time to be a good parent and show them love.
2006-12-22 14:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by alecnaaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean when Marraige doesnt work out? are the children both of yours? Ofcourse you love the children. I dont think it is right to stay together for the children, because then the horrible marraige will only screw them up in future. They will be given the wrong idea of what marraige is like.
2006-12-22 14:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by RonniBoBonny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce really has nothing to do with the children. If you love them being married you will still love them if you're divorced. That doesn't change after a divorce.
2006-12-22 15:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one said ................You work it out. You fight to keep the marriage. You do it for the kids and for the promises you made together. You talk, you counsel, and you get it to work. It is your marriage. If you are not happy, make it one that you can be happy in.
This can be done.
I nearly left my husband a few years ago, but I stayed and we are still working it out...it is a life long thing, there is no short answer.
You as the husband can romance your wife all over again, and make it interesting and fun
2006-12-22 15:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by older mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly if you still love your children than still get a divorce if you think that its necessary just becausew u you have children doesnt mean you should go on with a woman that you dont think is right for you. try to get custody of your children or shared custody or at least visatation rights just bevause you two wont be together doesnt mean you have to stop loving you kids theyll always be your kids
2006-12-22 14:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~iTS BRiTRT BABE >3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work it out. You fight to keep the marriage. You do it for the kids and for the promises you made together. You talk, you counsel, and you get it to work. It is your marriage. If you are not happy, makle it one that you can be happy in.
If all is truly lost, be a friendly divorced couple and have very generous custody priveledges. Then you can se them whenever.
2006-12-22 14:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your children will understand...it's better for them to grow up in two different households than one where the parents fight or hate each other. as long as both parents show them lots of love...they will get along just fine if the parents are divorced.
2006-12-22 14:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by hrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't stay cause of the children. no one will be happy. you can move on and still have a relationship with the kids.
2006-12-22 14:45:56 · answer #9 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the children
2006-12-22 14:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋