I've been trying 2 get a 3 rd party view on my relationship BUT my Husband just figured out what I am doing. He is also on it now. What do I do? I hope he doesn't fingure out how 2 get my info. He is doing this 2 c what I am doing. Just 2 watch me & c if I talk 2 anyone. He doesn't trust me online! What should I do?
2006-12-22 14:41:25 · 14 answers · asked by Missy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
reggee superstar that is part of the problem he doesn't want 2! It was 17 mo in sept when saw lawyer & sex once. Nothing since! How long am I suppose 2 wait.There is NO AFFECTION between us. On a different note I hope he reads my other questions I have posted mayb it will give him a clue?Mayb he will realize what he is doing 2 me/us & change or let me go! I hope so anyway! I'm tired of giving & getting NOTHING in return. The reason I'm on the computer is because I have NOTHING else 2 do. When we r together we fight! I'm tired of it.Mayb he'll c the light I can only hope. I'm tired of living in the dark mayb it's time 4 him 2 understand what's going on & stop being in denial!!
2006-12-22 14:58:40 · update #1
honesty show him yours if you aint doing anything wrong then you have no worries
2006-12-22 14:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by SOCK MONKEY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your relationship is in serious trouble, and you need to talk to him about it so you can decide together what steps you can take to work things out. It's unfortunate that he is watching you online. Even when you're married you have a right to privacy, to your own interests, and you have a right to confide in someone. If you want to stay on Yahoo Answers, sign in with a new name and password.
Honestly, since you want a third-party view, your husband sounds controlling, you sound scared and like you feel trapped, and the best thing you can do is start taking steps to make your marriage better or take steps to get out of it. I wish you the best.
2006-12-22 14:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the two very youthful yet. and because you have been at the same time so long and from this type of youthful age...my guess is that he's involved in 'what if' or different females. i may be disenchanted too. yet, if his cellular telephone does not have atypical calls, or his time is easily accounted for...i does not assume he's already cheating. yet, idk..you in no way understand. What does he SAY approximately WHY he does this? Married adult adult males have fantasies...it basically gets undesirable whilst they stay them out. it is likewise available he's attempting out the unmarried waters and could be thinking out. Time for deep communication approximately what you the two choose out of existence and your marriage. additionally, it has no longer something to do with you and your seems, etc. remember, some admired beauties have been given left or cheated on...it quite is the guy and what he's finding for.
2016-10-15 11:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by shakita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do l guess. He sounds a little insecure, you better be careful what you say. I'm lucky there my husband knows what l do and trusts me. He never checks up on me. Oh well l don't think so anyway !! haha maybe !! Nah. Merry Xmas
2006-12-22 14:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want a divorce? do you not trust each other? may be you
two could find answers together. he is your husband would you
want him on this site without you? it sounds to me that you two
needs to talk . ask the question, (why don't you trust me?) do
not give up on your marriage over bull.
2006-12-22 14:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by i must be bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should spend more time with your husband talking and working on your relationship. And less time here asking a bunch of strangers for advice about him. God bless****
2006-12-22 14:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get off line. you obviously spend mote time with your cpu than him. Show your husband some affection, take care of him sexually and you have nothing to worry about. Now turn off the cpu and make love to your man!
2006-12-22 14:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by reggae superstar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same problem!
Make your avatar completly opposite of what you look like.
And get alot names...I have over 20 id's on this site!
Hope that helped...and your husband is very insecure, tell him its a turn off.
2006-12-22 14:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talking about a serious communication problem.
talk to him instead of zillion of strangers
2006-12-22 22:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Takis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried? Are you doing something wrong? Make it so people can't contact you and he will never know who you are.
2006-12-22 14:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by MAY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋