DO you think this quote is true?...reasonable?

Question

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
-Mignon McLaughlin
i mean... i think the quote "the course of love never ran smooth...."

and i mean....can you fall in love with the same person twice or even more.. even after pain or after time.. goes by.??

Answer 1

Yes you can. You just have to get a refill. This can be achieved in several ways. Sometimes just taking the time to look in their eyes is enough.

Answer 2

Probably this seemed true to the person who wrote it.
It seems to me that when you first meet a person, you feel a huge amount of passion for them. This lasts maybe a year, two at the outside. After that period, you either develop a satisfactory number of common interests (a child being the classic one) or you don't. If you don't, the differences that exist between you seem more and more annoying. Either you learn to ignore these or you don't.

If you separate from the person, sometimes fond memories push out the bad ones, then you can possibly have a sort of reset and fall in love again.

What you can or can't do, and will or won't do, depends on you and the other person, as well as exterior factors (like someone finding or not finding Jesus or getting a gambling or drinking problem).

There are people seem to who achieve something very close to perfect harmony: Hume Cronin and Jessica Tandy, Ossie Davis and Dee Brown come to mind. Perhaps even Nancy and Ronald Reagan.

Answer 3

There are many types of "love". As we get older, we need different "loves" at different times. The successful marriage means that both persons have the same "love" at the same time.

Answer 4

To quote myself "Free will is positive and positive work is the cornerstone for fortification against the bad. The will, as its being is free, is founded on the positive constituents of human essence, positive work sustains that spiritual condition against the negative forces of evil spirit. As we are finite in measure, this condition is limited, but as it endures, so does the person as good person, and as the good person is good, so is that life. "

Both being good people and limitted, could the strength of love hold the same through every stress and tension, or would love rise and fall like waves on the ocean. The becoming of a good person is mysterious these days as rational conflict rages on internally and externally. Does one fall to love or rise up with it. It takes from a stronge person to forgive assaults against the spirit, to heal from injury. Should a person endure repetitive injury, is that what precedes falling down from love.

It is reasonable, but not probable.

Answer 5

I think that its less about the emotion the heart beating fast or the cloud 9 feelings. Its more about understanding that when you choose that person, you have to choose that whole person, and not just the good traits, but also the bad. So if he/she has one bad trait that you can't stand or you are just unwilling to stand, don't assume that you can change him/her over time. It wouldn't matter if he had all the good traits that you were looking for. Your marriage will be doomed.

Answer 6

Yes, I think my marriage is successful and I fall in love with my wife constantly.

Answer 7

love alone not good enough,it need scarified and patient and alot of understanding in both side to make it a successful and make sure that person you merried is the right one that really love you too.

Answer 8

True? Yes. Reasonable? Not really.

Answer 9

i think u can fall in love with the same person over and over again but only if u want to.....

Answer 10

Yes.