I have this friend named Patrick. Alot of people in my school thinks he's g*y. He talks crap about me and won't admit it. He already has half of my school hating me. What should I do?
2006-12-22 13:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by Gary D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all he aint yo friend. he's talkin bout you behind your back and then having most of the school hate you thats not a friend. he aint someone you should be talkin to because he sounds like he has a few issues he needs to get rid of. dont speak to him. if he trys to speak to you ignore him. dont look at him or email him or call him. walk away when he says something about you. let him and his wannabe gay self sit there and make comments. personally this is me and my friends motto. "if you have something to say and you cant back up your facts then dont say anything about me or to me period because if so there is gonna be a problem." just keep your head up above the crowd. walk with confidence and assurance. if most of the things he says isnt true then dont listen to him. if he wants to talk let him. but when people start talkin bout how gay he might seem i probably bet you he's gonna need someone to back him up when the time comes. you know in your heart and mind whats true and whats not true. if he wants to say things let him talk because regardless or not the facts are true or not someone is always gonna talk about you. good luck.
2006-12-22 13:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the fact that people at your school think he`s gay have to do with this question? Anyway.
Confront him, and if he keeps denying it, just stop being friends with him. If he admits to it, ask him why and if you still want to be friends, try to fix everything up.
2006-12-22 21:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront Patrick. Then, eliminate the friendship.
2006-12-22 21:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by So lyrical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patrick is NOT your friend. Stay away from him. He is trying to make himself popular by talking about other (you) people.
2006-12-22 21:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him completely. A gay joke or two might do the trick. Nothing against gay's but if he's talking crap about you, damn dude, he might have a crush on you.
2006-12-22 21:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger guy. keep ur head high and ignore it. tell others that hes lying about u and let others know u still have ur dignity. then confront him. tell him to quit talkin crap about you that you know isnt true. then stop bein friends with him. but make sure u know its him lol
2006-12-22 21:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. Is he really saying crap about you or is it someone else saying
it?
b. If he is really saying bad things about you, I would wonder if he is really your friend.
2006-12-22 21:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to shut up. with your group of friends, win the school back. when he says stuff about you pretend you dont care, he'll stop
2006-12-22 21:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could ignore it. Or just tell him you know he's doing it, tell him to quit, and if he doesn't, you'll go to the administration and accuse him of harassment/bullying.
2006-12-22 21:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really doing as you say then give him the flick as he is no friend.
2006-12-22 21:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by auburn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋