Recently, A Guy, who is reading my blog, wants to know me more. we don't live in one city. He keeps calling me and we enjoy talking to eachother. He wants to come here to see me. he seemed to like her girlfriend to be attractive also in appearance. I am now getting somehow worry if my height may be a problem? My ex-boyfirend left me because he thought I am very short.. Please help me with this..with the reality!
2006-12-22 13:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by Danielle D 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
guess what im 4 11 too and i have dated a guys over 6 feet and my last boyfriend was about 6 4-6 5 foot tall and he never had a problem with me being to short and we actually made a cute couple too and short girls get to do more fun and cute stuff like carry the girl on his sholders , i think thats so cute and i have been on his sholders and it felt like i was on top of the world !!
and that guy that left you for being to short , IS A BUM!! if hes gonna be like that then i guess he didnt really love u in the first place ! maybe he was just trying to use u for your body or for him to look good !!
and meeting people over the internet can be very dangerous so be careful and if you still want to do this and if you are old enough(like an adult) and u still want to meet him then meet in a public place! its safer because everyones around THIS would be a good idea if u choose to meet him for the 1st time!!
i hope this helps and hey if you want to be a lil taller then where your lil heels gurlllllllllllll SHOOOOOOOOOOT thats what i do !and if you dont know how to walk in them then start practicing now !!! also you can wear your hair up to make you look like you have a taller appearance and wear high heel boots with long pants that makes u look like u have long legs!! well i hope this helps !!
2006-12-22 13:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by babygyal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am only 5'0 tall. Have confidence in yourself and realize that short girls are gorgeous too. If he isn't as into you as you would like him to be, that is his problem. I have dated guys over 6'0 tall and average height guys. Men like all types of women, so do not get discouraged. You cannot change your height, but you can change the way you carry yourself and your attitude.
By the way, do not let the bad experience with your ex bf bring you down. I'm sure there is someone out there that will find your height completely adorable. Good Luck !
2006-12-22 21:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet him, the first time have some girl friends around at place like starbucks. That is very un save for the first date or even the second
I am 5'6 and my current friend is 6'2 so hight is not an issue with most guys.
My best friend is a size 2 , 5'1 and is dating a guy who is 6'0 weights about 180.
2006-12-22 21:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he should like you no matter how you look or the height you are. If you are worried then tell him you are 4'11 and then he will know what to expect. That should not be a problem. But it also depends on what age you are. He wont worry if you are a bit short for your age because its whats inside that counts. Remember no one can judge a book by its cover.
2006-12-22 21:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tinker Bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a lot more to be worried about than a height problem... for instance, is this guy really who he says he is?... don't you hear about crap like that on TV and the news... Girls meet guys on the internet and then want to meet up with them and it turns out the guy wasn't really the young, hott, nice communicating guy he says and he ends up raping her or even killing her.... Guys on the internet know what they are doing and they know what to say to make a cute, athletic, short girl like you to fall for them and want to meet them... Take my advice and I'm sure everyone else's and DO NOT meet up with him!!!!
2006-12-22 21:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That is the dumbest reason ever to leave a person because they are too short. If he was really that petty, then it's good you two aren't together any more! Believe me, you don't have anything to worry about. I'm a 6'0 girl, now I had problems finding guys! Most guys like way short girls so they can treat them like a doll baby. Don't worry about it!
2006-12-22 21:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, meeting people from the internet is very risky, and could be dangerous, my suggestion is don't do it, because people lie on the internet OFTEN!
second, if someone likes you for you, that includes your height. Not only how you look, but you personality, your thoughts, your reactions, your smile :) your eyes...all of you
good luck and be safe
2006-12-22 21:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by super sally Tube Socks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i don't think its proper to meet some random person from the internet but thats just my opinion second im 5ft and most guys don't care and if they do forget them they aren't worth it find someone who likes you for you because if they don't they'll try to change you or make you feel bad about yourself and who wants that garbage
2006-12-22 21:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet up with someone over the internet unless you already know him or your family member knows him. It could end in diaster. Just think...what would your mom think about it? You don't want to do it.
2006-12-22 21:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by hello. it's me. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your ex boyfriend was silly. If you are really cute, size does not matter. Remember the best things in life come in small packages.
2006-12-22 21:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by girish a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋