I left her a month ago because I feel we have different expectations. I called her and saw her a lot at the beginning, and asked to be friends, but she has asked for no contact with me. I have told her I miss her, but I think I've done the right thing by breaking up. Is it wrong that I still want to see her?
2006-12-22 13:03:40 · 13 answers · asked by iliketorideigohago 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normal to want to see some one you care about.
If you broke up with her then you need to give her space and time to put her self back together. By telling her you miss her and talking like that you are sending her mixed signals.I wouldn't want to talk or see you.
Time heals
so give her some.
Let her move on with her life and you move on with yours.
2006-12-22 13:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not. i do understand why you left her. its okay to still want to be friends with her first,try to slow things down a little bit and begin to re connect with her. and if you still feel you have any feelings for her than later on take a crack at it. the reason why she doesnt want to have any contact with you right now might be because shes still trying to get through her thoughts on as to why u two have broken up. who knows some girls heal faster then others, it takes some time..
and i am heree to answer any questions you may have im upp to anything
brittany
2006-12-22 13:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~iTS BRiTRT BABE >3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u loved her now u might still have feeling and she might not. Ask her, yes she might get all prissy but it might get u the truth u want. I have a personal expericnce i was going out with a girl for 10 months and i catch her cheating on me so natuarly i broke up with her but i still loved her im over it now but i still wanna talk. Tell her its strictly friendship then push ur way back into the relationship
2006-12-22 13:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jackson B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think it is wrong. You say you know you did the right thing by breaking up with her. If you truly feel that way then it is time to move on, and allow her to do the same. I dont blame her for wanting to cut ties right now because it seems like your not really sure what you want. Move on.
2006-12-22 13:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her time to get over you first - if that is what she is wants. On the flip side she might simply just not want to see you again because she has moved on
2006-12-22 13:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by NaomiLSullivan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong to want to see her but it would be wrong to not respect her request for no contact. she was hurt by the breakup and needs to heal. she may be able to bear a friendship relationship after she has had time to heal
2006-12-22 13:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong. Maybe Selfish. If you left her and she needs no contact then respect it and let her have her space, you broke up with her.
2006-12-22 13:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by upfromnutin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what she has 2 say about it if she saids yes go 4 it
2006-12-22 13:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by krazykitten31@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.
Leave her alone to get over you.
'Friends' only works when one half of a couple was not really in love to begin with.
2006-12-22 13:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by cate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, my ex still does that to me. It just means that you still miss her.
2006-12-22 13:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by All yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋