2006-12-22 12:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by sexpregir 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to heal first. Abuse is an injury of sorts. Your body heals in time, but the scars it leaves on your mind and heart, they take a long time to heal. In order to love someone else, you have to love yourself first and foremost, which means you have to heal from the abuse, completely before you even attempt to find love again. If you don't heal, you are liable to fall back into another abusive relationship. The statistics bear this out, time and time again.... Give your self some YOU time, and put the past relationship into perspective, then put it away in the past....
Good Luck to you!
2006-12-22 14:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by mlw6366 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,but you (must pay very close attention) to any one you are thinking about getting involved with,before you get involved with them.You (must not) associate with the same type of people that your abuser know or hangs with,or even in the same environment.You (must) change the way you think about yourself,build up your self esteem so that you won't fall back into the same trap.What i am about to say is not meant to be rude,or mean,but you (must not) open your heart or your legs just because their hot,sound sweet,talk nice,or because your body is telling you that you need sex.(You have to be strong) and believe that you are worth more than a quick lay,or someones punching bag.
2006-12-23 23:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can however you need to have a good support network of friends or family and if not perhaps counselling might help. The worst you could do is carry that abuse into a new relationship because you might be filled with lack of trust, fear, and all that goes with issues that have not been properly dealt with. Good Luck
2006-12-22 21:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by wandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes but you must come to terms with the abuse and its
damages.then GET HELP!!!
then find a support group and by all means don't isolate yourself from family and friends.
make it a priority to be a SURVIVOR and when u overcome it be a becon to those who have suffered as u
if you move on as a survivor and help others with what u
learned then you will be giving yourself the best healing medicine of all.Trust in Jesus Christ who suffered for
our sins and overcame death and the grave so we could have eternal life when we put our trust in him as Lord and
Savior.
2006-12-22 21:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can...it takes time to heal..See a counselor if you can, they do help. Put the abuser and your dark experience behind. There is someone much better outside there for you-someone who will truly love you and help you to put ur past behind you.
Keep on believing.
God bless you
2006-12-22 21:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if YOU want to .... be honest with your next partner and let him know you were abused .. IF they care about you then you will see a difference
2006-12-22 21:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, but now you know what to look for. go to some support groups at your local shelter and they can teach you how to look for the red flags.
2006-12-22 20:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u cld, in time, but not the person who abused you!
2006-12-22 20:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by alisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can but you must break the cycle, and find faith in yourself before you can find it in another.
2006-12-22 21:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by kitzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can..but trusting will be hard. and for that reason you should seek professional counselfing to help you cope.
2006-12-22 21:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋