Would the latter of the two be lust?
It's just a matter of opinion, but I would like to know yours.
2006-12-22 12:44:14 · 13 answers · asked by Salma 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If two people connect quickly thats great but it grows over time. If it stops growing then it's a dead relationship. You should learn from each other and grow together. It encompasses years together. Just like you as an individual, when do you stop growing and learning?
When you look at a happy older couple, think how long it took them to really know each other and what each other like.
2006-12-22 12:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by jamv0051 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it can grow but the exciting one is the one that just pops out of nowhere.
It is a strange thing love. I have seen lasting love and the pop up kind and they are all great in their own way. I think the real love is the growing kind.
2006-12-22 20:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that either are plausible. There is a possibility that someone that you have known for some time may quite suddenly appear very different to you for whatever reason. But "love at first sight" is lust.
2006-12-22 20:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love is like a human being it grows over time, infatuation, which is sometimes confused with love happens immediately, but don't get me wrong it could turn into love, real love with time.
2006-12-22 20:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think attraction just happens but love requires a conscious decision to go forward into the wilderness with your heart open.
2006-12-22 20:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both are lust. I only lust, love is out of the question.
2006-12-22 20:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love grows over time
i think infatuation/lust/etc. pop out of nowhere
2006-12-22 20:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by KylieM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so because you start out liking the person. Then all of a sudden you're dating them. BAM! You just proposed to them. "Here comes the bride!" and its your wedding day. Before you know it, they'll be kids coming!
2006-12-22 20:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it grows more with time, and for me, depending on who that love is for, it gets stronger with time!
2006-12-22 20:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe both... in my opinion, love does so much, it's hard to put an understanding to it, one of life's mysteries.
2006-12-22 20:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋