I dont know if i am in love or emotional dependent on this man?
How do i know if this man and me are dependent on eachother ?
Can this be love or can it turn in to love?
2006-12-22 12:42:17 · 6 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
this man and me are great physical and we do talk alot about family and are kids and we hold eachother all the time .
What is intimacy? i do belive i have this with him .We are really close to eachother he just keeps saying he cant comit.
2006-12-22 12:52:29 · update #1
YOU ARE IN A HELL OF A SITUATION.
IT SEEMS FROM WHAT I HAVE READING THAT YOU HAVE GREAT SEX
AND YOU DO PRETTY WELL ON THE TAKING PART.
BUT THE END OF YOUR QUESTION MAKES ME A BIT DOUBTFUL.
HE DOES NOT WANT TO COMMIT.
WHAT ARE YOU THEN STILL DOING WITH THIS GUY.
HE WILL NEVER GIVE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.
IN MY EYES HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU AT ALL.
YOU CAN DO TWO THINGS:
1-ACCEPT THAT HE WILL NOT COMMIT.
2-BREAK UP BEFORE YOU GET REALLY HURT
3-FIND YOURSELF A GUY WHO WANTS TO BE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP OK?
I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK
GREETINGS :ROB.
2006-12-22 14:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, and looking for the "right one" is usually just wasted time because more often than not, we get the wrong ones. So he does not want to commit, but is he seeing someone else? So you're emotionally dependent to each other, this builds a great support core.
What is love really? We don't know how to define it. But we usually experience attraction and extreme passion, then after a while a symbiosis occurs and we tend to get comfortable, then after a long while we don't even know where we end ad the other person begins... And when tempting people come along, we choose to stay... After the passion starts to wither, love stays...
Is it really love? Time will tell. Life is short, why worry too much about the future and cease to enjoy the moment? He's there with you right here, right now. Hold him, and don't worry if it will last... We don't really know what can happen tomorrow.
2006-12-23 02:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us are more emotional than others. My emotions are always out of whack! I wish there was a way to make getting involved that didn't involve getting your heart and guts all twisted around!!! Good luck!
Love,
Gregory
2006-12-22 21:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotions are a very important part of love.
but love is also physical and sexual..
love is also about companionship, communication.
also physical and emotional intimacy.. also about being best friends..
do you have all these things?? then it's love.
2006-12-22 20:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably love each other and you probably are emotionally dependant also. I am- I guess. I am learning to pay my own way in life,but I HATE being lonley.
2006-12-22 21:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you all call each other names and beat the crap out of each other and still love each other.
2006-12-22 21:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by kitzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋