2006-12-22 12:37:55 · 18 answers · asked by Jack H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my hubby wont have sex with me so lets have sex together lol jk
2006-12-22 15:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by subbysbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awesome she likes what you have purchased her for Christmas. But you should not make a big deal out of sex. As it is just a fringe benefit in life. I suggest you start with showing affection and appreciation for her in a romantic way. Little by little I am sure you will soon have her in the mood. If not then something is bothering her, I suggest you ask her what is wrong? Then once she opens up if something is bothering her, she might then feel relaxed enough to have sex.
If in the past you have made a big deal out of her not liking the gift you bought her then, she may not want to tell you the truth.
Best of luck to you
2006-12-22 12:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is your wife? Tell her that you didn't buy the gifts to have sex with her but you just want to get it on. Is that to much to ask? I don't think so. I can't tell if she is on the outs with you or what is the story because you didn't allow enough information. This is the best I can do! Merry Christmas, I hope you get some sugar soon.
2006-12-22 13:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what gifts have to do with your wife wanting to have sex with you, but:
If you need to get her gifts in order for her to have sex with you, you should probably tell her to get her priorities straight. That's not the right way to go about a relationship, especially a marriage.
If you're trying to get her to have sex with you by buying her gifts, then maybe you need to get your priorities straight. Maybe you should ask her why she doesn't want to have sex with you.
Talk it out with her.
2006-12-22 12:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are different things.
Having sex is altogether different from giving or recieving gifts. Maybe thats your problem, you dont know the difference.
Forget the gifts and ask her why she does not want sex.
It it because she doesnt fancy you or she is too tired or she has forgotten what it is?
2006-12-22 13:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to buy sex from your wife. Tell her that if she really doesn't want you anymore, to let you go so you can enjoy your life. Sheesh, some women are so evil. Shrews like that give the rest of us a bad rep.
2006-12-22 12:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she a prostitute? That is the only explanation that I can think of for you expecting sex in exchange for gifts... If she is a prostitute, perhaps you need to throw her some cash too. If she is not a prostitute perhaps you should acquire more realistic expectations.
2006-12-22 13:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by hes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the gift related to what you want?
I don't think either one is related so be glad she likes the gift. The frosting on the cake isn't everything.
2006-12-22 13:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to buy her off? It isnt a trade, if she doesnt want to have sex then there is a deeper issue. Time to sit down and talk.
2006-12-22 12:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So buy your hand a gift,that works 100% of the time.
2006-12-22 12:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is enough information here to know that your relationship with your wife needs serious help and there is not nearly enough to know what the solution is so get some help and soon!
2006-12-22 12:55:36 · answer #11 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋