We just had a huge fight.
She thinks I gave her email to some guy but I don't even know him.
I don't even know if he exists.
She was wondering what IDIOT has her email address and she thought of me.
Half of me is burning with anger and the other is gonna cry.
It makes me wanna kill myself, but remember, I am only in the 5th garde.
WHAT CAN I DO?!?!?!?!?!
THis is driving me insane
2006-12-22 12:31:27 · 10 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am sorry to hear about your friend sweety, don't be sad. try to talk to her again you are friends and I'm sure that she loves you and wants to go on your friendship, that's why she's angry,
think of something she likes or something you two like doing it together and do it with her
go to her and tell her that you are sorry that some thing like this happened with her , tell her how much you love her and how much you want to continue this friendship
and if she is try to find out who that person is or who gave him her e-mail, tell her that you will help her
Good Luck sweety and Merry Christmas
2006-12-22 12:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, all you can do is tell her the truth. If she doesn't believe you then let her go. She's not a real friend. This is a very minor thing that seems like such a big deal when you are in 5th grade. When you are grown like me you will realize it as such a little thing. There will be other friends. Real friends. This is certainly nothing to even think about killing yourself over. That's just absolutely crazy to even suggest that! There is no problem on the face of the earth that bad. And I've lived through a LOT so I speak from experience. Killing yourself is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. That me be a lot to think about at your age but I hope you understand what it means.
God bless you!
2006-12-22 12:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, first of all, would not apologize to her. In her mind's eye, it would only prove to her that you are guilty(even though, in reality, you are not). Secondly, I would think that if she were truly your friend, she would trust you by now, and would know you would never do such a thing. It is entirely possible that the guy who supposedly has her Email may have hacked into the principal's office computer to get it. Or maybe he copied it down from a teacher's grade book or something along those lines. Let the dust settle, then let her come to you to make up. If she is really your friend, then she will come to see that it was never you to start with.
2006-12-22 12:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being upset. I would be too. You know what? If I know that I didn't do anything wrong, I wouldn't even try to talk to her. I mean, it sounds to me like she's just trying to find any stupid exuse to be mad at you. You don't even know the guy... and if she is your true friend, why would she even dare to think you did such a thing?
Ignore her. Don't apologize for something you didn't do. The truth always comes out.
2006-12-22 12:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try talking to her and explain in a calm resonable fashion that it wasnt you who did it. if she is still persistant and angry then give the friendship a rest and take some time for both of you to cool off maybe she will come around and relize it wasnt you. maybe she wont if she doesnt and she is so easy to suspect you then she really isnt that much of a friend.
2006-12-22 13:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by chrfou18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do it - you didn't do it. If you really really want this person to be your friend and their friendship is important to you (but I don't know why it would be after something like this) ask yourself this...
Do you want to be right? Or do you want to be happy?
And then - do what you need to do.
2006-12-22 12:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just assure her that you would never give out that information and hope she would never give out yours and give it a few days for the dust to settle
2006-12-22 12:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont ever consider killing yourself....
this is not the first argument you will ever have with a friend.
have you tried talking to your mom?
thats where i would definately start....
it will be ok!
2006-12-22 12:40:23 · answer #8 · answered by been there done that.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and set her straight and if this works PLEASE VOTE ME AS BEST ANSWER
2006-12-22 12:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
APOLOGIZE doesn't matter what it is, apologize
2006-12-22 12:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Rick J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋