Have you ever got revenge on someone who humiliated you?How?

Answer 1

one time there was this girl who made my life a living hell for about a year. I found some of her school books lying around, no one else was around so i threw them away in a trashcan. She greatly suffered grade-wise and ultimatley got expelled because of grades as well multiple disiplinary actions. I dont think it really was my fault, she probably would've gotten expelled anyway.

I kind of regret it, but not really to be honest.

Answer 2

Never intentionally. The humiliation which a person dishes out, is often not intentional either. It is just taken personally by you.

I have never sought to avenge anyone who humiliated me. The reason is that if I was humiliated, it was because of my own personal failing. If I was not humiliated, it was because I do not suffer from LBS.

Humiliation requires you to feel inferior. If you are comfortable with yourself, and never feel inferior, you cannot be humiliated.

In the words of Mhatma Gandhi

"You can beat my bones, you can even kill me. But your will never have my self respect, if I never give it to you."

Answer 3

As the saying goes "If you are looking for revenge, you may as well dig two graves", remove yourself from the equation and do not allow yourself to be the one who is humiliated, their efforts become in vain, you rise above it, look down on them and laugh. That what dose not kill you only makes you stronger.

Answer 4

No, but I never forgive those who really hurt me, I put the pain inside and it feels like it still hurts even after years. But I guess this pain makes us better people because we have the strength to fight it and remember not to become like them someday. It's my curse and and my blessing. But revenge is not a tool for the strong it's just another way to show that you are as bad as the one who started this conflict.

Answer 5

Yes! long story, will make it short. I did not set out for revenge, but found the opportunity to take it thrust under my nose and could not resist. I was brought up in care, and physically/sexually abused by many people. Years later I briefly worked in a Childrens Home (no, I did not continue the cycle of violence and did not stay long in that work)

It was my day off, but I'd volunteered to do some heavy gardening. Had just finished a day's work, and was sitting in the Staff Room, while the children had their tea. This woman comes in and we recognise each other. She has come for a job interview and has lost track of time, thinks I'm still in care (actually I'm 19 and a member of Staff) She starts yelling at me, saying why was I not in having tea with the others,
"Because I don't feel like it" I deliberately wound her up because I knew what she was like. She told me to get out of the Staff Room, go and get washed and changed. I sat where I was and said I'd rather rest here for a while, thankyou. I was very cool, very polite. She went ballistic, marched to the Super's Office and started yelling that there was big trouble in the Staff Room. Her face all red, she dragged the Superintendant back to the Staff Room, pointed at me and said I was giving her cheek, etc. Hoping to impress with her delinquent managing skills.

The Super was confused. Thanked me for working so long and hard for free on my day off, very cool and irritated with the woman who had made my life hell 8 years previously. When she realised I was a member of staff, she became embarrassing. Why hadn't I told her ? I replied that she had given me no opportunity, just started yelling. Then she started trying to befriend me, which was intolerable. Said I had to get out of my dirty clothes & excused myself. Dignity is key.

She did not get the job.

Answer 6

i didn't do it intentionally... it happened with the course of events. In hindsight- it's good because he made a fool of me by seeing other girls 4 girls in a year and a half. I forgave too many times. Slowly we just didn't work for the evident reason that i could just not trust him and started seeing other people... we'd broken up by which time he'd realised he shouldn't have done what he did to me and thought that he could simply turn up and expect me to drop my current relationship for a piece of excrement like him. He called it my revenge on him... in a way i never had any intention of leaving the slimey bugger but it wasn't working- i thought by keeping mutual friends it would keep harmony, but he thought i was being kind to him to make him realise what he'd lost- not so- but karma reaches people some way or another without you having to do much and it feels great to see him suffer- he hasn't suffered the way i did- but atleast he knows what he's lost. Lilly Allen comes to mind- then i do SMILE!:)

Answer 7

mine wasnt a humiliation thing, somebody did upset me really bad once and i wanted revenge, this person had a beautiful lush green lawn which he mowed and tended on a regular basis,the man went on holiday for a week so i got 30 packets of cress seeds (available from garden centres nationwide) and sprinkled the word bastard in two feet high letters on his prized lawn.(best done at night) cress seeds grow within a few days and the result was sweet just like my revenge.

Answer 8

yes, last week a boy (who i thought was my friend) in Spanish class was moved (desks) away from me . I tried to talk to him, I said I really like this section in the book but he responded saying good for you. It humiliated me in front of the class but the next day he asked me if he could use my notes to study together (because no one else wanted to with him him) and I told him nah I'm good. He was really embarrassed and i got my revenge.

Answer 9

Absolutely! It was hard though! I decided to let the person see that they had humiliated me by looking at them a little bit as though I was sad. And I really was sad, it just manifested itself in anger. (How original)! Anyway, I began to pray (in my own way----whatever good thoughts mean to you----you don't have to be religious) and prayed that they were never humiliated and felt the way they had made me feel. It worked on their mind, because they were friendly within one week. And it worked on my mind too
because I stopped feeling humiliated when I prayed for them.

Answer 10

just take it with dignity and then forget it and forget the person who did this on you. I know it is so easily said but the action is a different matter. You feel stronger if you ignore, you will become of a stronger personality.