I have a problem with my friend... she will be known as 'm' ok m and i were very good friends then we went to different schools for a year then i swited to her school. she left after the 1st 9 weeks and moved to a different city. Now she has become the exact person i hate and dont want to be friends with what do i do?
2006-12-22 11:43:30 · 13 answers · asked by Ginny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Move on. There are too many great people out there to make friends with to waste your time on someone you say is exactly the type of person you hate. After all she doesn't live by you anymore so make friends with people who are the type you like to be around.
2006-12-22 11:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you no longer can relate to her lifestyle, then just chill on the friendship for a while...but don't break all ties..sometimes when people get around new people, the influence of the group that has taken her in can rub off...but if she was a close friend once, chances are she will grow up a little and someday in the future you will feel close again. Give her space and she will figure out what and who makes her happy and secure and need her old friend back again. Good luck!
2006-12-22 11:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will not stay the same all their life. If she is a true friend, accept her the way she is and try to understand where she is coming from. If she was not a real true friend, sometimes people come into your life for a season and that season may be over for her.
2006-12-22 11:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she lives in a different city. Don't worry about it. Rarely do long distance friendships last. You get busy and just don't have the time to write or call. It will fizzle out.
2006-12-22 11:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change, especially when they go off to school. it's an important time for self-discovery and a time of figuring out who you want to be, which also means that you try out different personalities and behaviors. i know that when i went off to school, i went through many different phases to see what kind of person i wanted to be. just let her know that you are here for her and let her go through the process. i'm sure you are going through some changes too.
2006-12-22 11:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by eyegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that u cant be friends with some one like u and if u want to still be friend then u have 2 change
2006-12-22 11:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by jackiegomez45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is away how do you know she is a person you dont like? Maybe she misses you and is trying to push you away. if you were that close then she knows what you like and dont like. maybe she has changed, life is full of changes and thats just something that we all have to deal with.
2006-12-22 11:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by badbeat1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer. Life is too short to stress over the petty stuff.
2006-12-22 11:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing to do is just forget about her. At least she moved so, you won't have to worry about her anymore.
2006-12-22 11:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her, but look the fact that you've asked q about her on this site shows that you still care about her so why don't you follow yr heart
2006-12-22 11:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋