My sister inlaw is in the process of getting my wife and i to fight so we will get a divorce because she is jealous and has been for over a year. We have recently had a newborn child and i love my wife with all my heart and my son and i dont want my sister inlaw to be able to come between us but i feel as though she already has.
2006-12-22 11:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by aoc070888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to talk to your wife. she should be cutting off her sister. if that doesn't work drag her off to counciling and air your feelings there with and see where it goes.
2006-12-22 11:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your wife loves you as much as you seem to love her, she'll recognise what your sister-in-law is trying to do. All I can say is stand up for yourself in front of this sister-in-law, don't take crap from her, show her that you're a man. Make a pact with your wife to not let her come between you, to never fight in front of her, or to never discuss your relationship problems with her. Marriagfe is hard work and you have to safeguard your marriage against malicious people like this sister-in-law.
2006-12-22 11:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
State to your wife how you percieve the sister-in-law to be. Give her examples of why you feel this way. Ask her what her opinion is of this sister in law. If she sides with you, vow that you and her will never let this woman come between you. If she takes the sister-in-law's side, sorry but more problems will develop as your wife is letting the sister-in-law have control.
2006-12-22 11:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
Chainsaw, pruning shears, meat grinder, and a public toilet, and she's outta your life for good!!!!!
Seriously...you have to get your wife's support on this, and approach her as a unified team. If it is just you, and not your wife with this view, she will always be able to come between you. Your wife has an obligation to side with you on this one. It's you or her sister.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-22 11:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your sister-in-law a boy friend and maybe she will be busy elsewhere. If that does not work, be honest and upfront with her that her interference is hurting your marriage with YOUR wife and it is not welcome in YOUR household. Also keep your wife in the loop and let her know what is going on.
Good Luck
2006-12-22 11:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by csburridge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order against her.
Also have you tried talking with her? If you have and she has just brushed you off, I can understand that.
But your wife needs to tell her that she's happy with you, and that she needs to butt out.
2006-12-22 12:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't seek small answers here and there. Read Sun Tzu's "Art of War". There are plenty of strategies to handle this b-i-t-c-h.
2006-12-22 11:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her you don't like having negative people around your family and for that reason you choose not to have her in you and your families life.
2006-12-22 11:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dana B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order against her.
2006-12-22 11:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hire a hit man
2006-12-22 11:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋