why do I want love, if love has already destroyed me before - why do i still want to seek it, Why should I ever Fall in love?
2006-12-22 10:36:57 · 12 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
because you are human and you take a chance on the person you have met , like we all do you do what feels right at the time even though it do,ant work out in the long run, its just how it is thats life .
good luck in the future
2006-12-22 11:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by lizella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because, all of the hurt will be worth the payoff when you finally meet "the one". There is no better feeling on this earth then being in love. Winning some money in a lottery feels great. But, it doesn't give you purpose as a human being. Losing love can destroy you. But, in the spirit of the phoenix. You're heart is reborn to live anew. Each time you all in love it's different. Just never forget how powerful love really is.
2006-12-22 11:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by The Oracle Of Portland Maine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because that is what we have been trained to do, especially in the US. We grew up watching TV and movie romances. Did you know that there are societies in some south pacific islands that marry with no concept of permanence, that 6 7 or 8 marriges in a lifetime is considered normal. Don't buy into that true love lasts forever BS. Nothing lasts forever, you just have to make the most of what you get and deal with it when its over.
2016-05-23 16:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love fills in the gaps. We have to loose some times to make winning have so high a value. Plus it help you weed out the losers and the ones who have very different ways about them you won't like after the sex wears off. Or slows down some. Love only hurts when your love dies, That is why we remember.
2006-12-22 10:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As humans, we depend on other people for survival.
We have to love and accept people in order to do this.
Seeking a life-long relationship can be a life-long task, not easy.
Loving someone more than yourself, is a feeling that cannot be expressed in words. That is why I, and some people continue fall in love.
2006-12-22 19:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...tell me about it. No matter how much i try not to fall in love, i still do. I guess, the reason why, is because WE ARE MORTALS. We have no control over faith or destiny. What will be will be.
2006-12-22 11:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because eventually the bleeding stops, and you're ready to go on. Love is a wondrous thing, but it can come to a sudden halt if certain things arise, but that doesn't diminish on how good it feels.
2006-12-22 10:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Cory W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"It's better to have loved than to have never loved at all". It is wonderful to be in love--the jitters in the stomach, waiting for the phone to ring, holding hands, whispering sweet nothings, laughing about anything, having someone to care about and care for. The pros of love always outweigh the cons, in my mind.
We humans were created for companionship. We are created to love and to be loved.
2006-12-22 10:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by reeses30135 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because to feel is far bettern than to not feel. Love and pain outweigh numbness and boredom for most people.
2006-12-22 11:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Pippin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because people still believe that even though their heart was broken they can still have a chance to get it repaired by someone else loving them and closing their open wounds.
2006-12-22 10:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋