Im beginning to feel VERY attracted to girls.I have felt this way before but the feeling kinda went away. I always still liked girls and were turned on by some of them but was more for guys but now Im feeling more attracted to girls again..Does anyone have any advice as to am I bi or am I just in a curious stage or what? My ex boyfriend wants to get back together but I dont know if I want to now because I want to try a relationship with a girl..what do I do?
2006-12-22 10:32:16 · 9 answers · asked by joesbabygirl406 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you have not been with a girl, then you are just curious. You are young. You need to explore! Sometimes it's fun to experiment providing the other person says it's OK.
If you are having second thoughts about your BF, then it was not meant to be.
Good luck.
2006-12-22 10:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will learn more about yourself and who you are when you explore your feelings and attraction for a girl. I don't know how old you are, but you can meet a girl online to date or to get to know. There are plenty of dating sites online that also cater to same gender dating.
The other option is just to talk to bi and lesbian girls in a chatroom and talk about your feelings and meet other girls with same interests, flirt with them and so on. Communication helps you find out who you are when you are able to express your feelings without oppressing them.
If you are old enough 18+ then you can go to a gay and lesbian club, check out the environment and scene and see how you feel being there. If it really makes you feel like you're being yourself, then that is a clue and maybe meet other girls there to talk to and meet, even dance with. Just go explore yourself and find out who you are. Life is too short to not be who we are truly.
2006-12-23 17:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amma's Child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a stage but you could be bi. You could get back together with your ex then if you find a girl then break up with your guy and go out with her.
2006-12-22 10:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by alternativepunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are bi,then you like guys, so that would mean that you might want to get back with your ex.do you feel that way? If you only like girls then you are lesbian. either way God loves you,and so do your family,so what ever makes you happy,is fine.
2006-12-22 11:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I said it before and I'll say it again, if you think you mite be gay/bi, you most likely are. Explore your sexuality and find out. Then do what ever makes you happy>;)
2006-12-22 11:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you want to be with girls , not guys, then go where you are most happy.
2006-12-22 10:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try it. that way you will know for sure what gender you prefer. if you don't try new things then you will wonder for the rest of your life what could have been!!!
2006-12-22 10:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by george 2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot, enjoy yourself.
2006-12-22 10:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when i was with a girl i enjoined my self u can to
2006-12-22 11:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by The godfather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋