just because i haven't had a serious girlfriend, and i don't react to girls the way they do........practically frothing at the mouth, spring loaded penis, and eyes following there "body parts"
i think girls are pretty, but i rarely even get a semi-on over them, let alone a full hard-on, and i certainly don't find men attractive, i think some guys look cool and stuff, but i deffinetly don't want to f*ck them.
i have very little time for girls, in a dating sense, i find them annoying the way they go on, i enjoy being friends with them, most of my friends are female, but theres just nothing positive there for them in terms of bf/gf material.
i've explained all of this to the people who have accused me of being gay and bi, but they don;t seem to believe me or take the hint.
is it me or them who has the problem?
2006-12-22 09:10:21 · 20 answers · asked by Brutal_Yet_Beautiful 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if i wanted to f*ck guys, then i would, regardless of what people thought, but i don't
2006-12-22 09:11:02 · update #1
no offence, but to me, girls body parts, they're just that, body parts, theres nothing about that grabs my attention
2006-12-22 09:13:22 · update #2
*about them
2006-12-22 09:13:45 · update #3
i'm 20 btw
2006-12-22 09:26:38 · update #4
That doesn't mean you're gay, you just don't have a high sex drive. Maybe sometimes it's better to not be distracted by everything and concentrate on bettering yourself... I wish I had that kind of self control!
2006-12-22 09:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you MIGHT be gay because of your statement:
"i think some guys look cool and stuff, but i deffinetly don't want to f*ck them"
I think you equate gay with wanting to have anal sex with men -- but being sexually oriented toward men is a lot more than desiring anal sex, and often not even about that, actually.
You'd have to ask yourself what the effect of a guy you find good looking has on you, and not use the desire to have intercourse as your litmus test. You just might prefer men to women socially, emotionally, and eventually sexually, but haven't explored your feelings about it yet.
Not saying I'm right -- but it's one possibility.
2006-12-22 09:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Curtis B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone has a problem you or them. Well how old are you I know that I didn't start to become attracted to the opposite sex until I was almost in HS. I don't think you shouldn't worry about it. In your heart you know what you are attracted too and forget what everybody else thinks.They expect you to be all harmone crazed like them and you just arent ready for anything right now or at least thats how it sounds to me.
2006-12-22 09:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by babeejazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're gay, but I do think you're still in that Girls are ICKY phase. So there may be a maturity issue to take a look at... We all have hang ups, but girls are pretty cool to make friends with and then feelings start up and physical attraction and the first kiss...MAN its all good. When you're ready...then you're ready.
2006-12-22 09:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not emerge with a strong gay or bui or straight sexual identity ever, or it might be later in your 20s. This is normal. Don't worry what other people think. Just be yourself. Don't have sex until you are ready. They are trying to mind your business, which is only a problem if you let them.
2006-12-22 09:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Marc Miami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's an awkard situation to pinpoint what they automatically think..for assuming is not perfectly the right on answer.
But trust me whatever you think and felt inside you is your own pathways to decide which is right or left or straight ...and see the result or answer you are looking.!
Let them think and say what they say so for they will discover one day why they dont know which is which.?
2006-12-22 09:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by MJ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls. I'm not going half-****** over every girl I see. Actually, it's quite rare for me to get that aroused so strongly over merely seeing a girl. It's happened, but very infrequently.
You probably need to talk to a girl to start feeling something. You're not the only one.
Those guys who go nuts over seeing a girl walk by are mostly acting for their friends. Proving how manly they are. I always thought it was bad behavior, as well as stupid. The best way to get her is to NOT behave that way, but to go up to her and start talking like a normal human being.
2006-12-22 09:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by kickbutt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah just froget them their prob the gay ones. thereprob afraid to come out and pick on you. i no i feel the same away about girls. guys are attarctiveto me but not sexually either. i find girls so attractive and yet guys of course hey areattarctive but i dotn wantto get in bed with their hairy asses. dont worry about them. there just jelous.
2006-12-22 09:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like they who have a problem. You've honestly and clearly explained how and why you feel the way you do. Those other guys just don't "get it".
2006-12-22 09:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by barrych209 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋