i wanna hav the baby but my parents wouldnt be too excited, i luv the guy but he's my bff's boyfriend!
2006-12-22 08:50:54 · 53 answers · asked by lilchicki654 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yeah right.
2006-12-22 08:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you know for sure that you're pregnant? I think of course you should have the baby. If your parents aren't willing to help you think about having an open adoption. I have friends that have 2 daughters who were born to girls that were only 14 & 15. My friends love their little girls and are happy to have them, because they couldn't concieve children of their own.
You may have made a mistake, but babies are blessings. You can give this life to bless another family.
I would suggest you not have any more sex until you are mature enough to live with the consequences of your decision.
Your parents love you and they will understand. If they are mad at first they'll calm down soon. Parents just want what's best for their kids.
2006-12-22 08:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the last question you posted you said that your parents were dead. That is a horrible disgusting thing to joke about. That fact that you had sex with your best friends boyfriend is also disgusting! You need to get you priorities straight, like GOING TO SCHOOL, getting an education and learning how to treat other people. You are WAY too young to be having sex, and if you ARE pregnant, then you are getting what you deserve! This is what happens when you CHOOSE to be a S L U T!!!
2006-12-22 10:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are entirely too young to be thinking about having a baby now normally i'm an against abortions unless the cause is warranted and in this case it is sweetie you have your whole life ahead of you a baby takes away from who you could be you need to live your life before you try to think about bringing another life into this world you don't want to grow up resenting your baby because at the time you needed you didn't have anyone to tell you what the smart thing is to do i don't think it's good that you slept with your best friends man but that is out of my hands i think that you should think about this question if he slept with you there is no telling who else he is sleeping with that's not the type of man you want to be in love with i think you should cut him loose and abort that baby trust me years from now you'll be glad you did if you need any more advice you can contact me at my email address cashmerecuutie@yahoo.com
Keep your head up things might be hard right now but you gone make it you are beautiful and you don't need any boy to validate
that
2006-12-22 08:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by cashmerecuutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously really really young, not only physically but mentally also.
If the Condom broke go see a planned parenthood specialist and get the morning after pill and it will keep you from getting pregnant. After that stop having Sex. Stay in School. Get a life, and get your own man. Youre headed down the wrong path, fix it before it's too late.
2006-12-22 08:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by MissT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP HAVING SEX! Go read a book! I'm so mad right now. Try and be something MORE THAN A SEX OBJECT! You should be writing a paper or reading geometry or something. And how can you love your best friends boyfriend? You're too young to handle sex. You can't even tell your friend that you're sleeping with her boyfriend.
Stop the madness. I'm telling your mother.
2006-12-22 09:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been less than 72 hours go get Plan B
Also this is why you should use TWO methods of birth control. Lea's Shield is like a diaphram but it doesn't need to a prescription. The sponge is good too.
2006-12-22 08:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only saw two answers that may help you. First, if you have a good relationship with your mother, be mature, sit her down. Tell her you love her and you need her help. Then tell her what happened. Second, if you don't feel comfortable, go to Planned Parenthood, NOW. They will do a pregnancy test, counsel you and tell you what to do next. Are you ASSUMING you're pregnant? You may not be. You may want to go to Planned Parenthood first before you talk to your mom. Go to a friend's mom or another adult that you trust and ask for help. Don't try to do this by yourself. But whatever you do, you should go to Planned Parenthood immediately. Good Luck.
2006-12-22 09:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by loudavid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're pregnant? First of all...I would quietly pray to the good Lord for guidance...then proceed....if you are pregnant....any details prior to and during conception are irrelevant now...the question is ...how to tell your mom so you can have an allie during this time. There is a lot to consider....You are only in the 9th grade...apoption might be an answer for everyone concerned including "junior"? You really need to pray about this sitution to see what is best for YOU and BABY....Best of everything to all of you!
2006-12-22 08:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pass out and purchase an early "abode being pregnant try". maximum of those early ones can hit upon being pregnant hormones 10 days after concept. So in different words you need to make certain suitable now!!!! purchase a 2 p.c.. as you will opt to retest inspite of the 1st consequence. and shop in techniques that the faintest of faint line interior the consequence window remains a favorable, so thats why you will choose the two pk. stable success...
2016-10-18 21:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its you bff boyfriend then you better be careful because there is going to be a fight. if you keep the baby explaine to your parents that you did use a condom but it broke. they may be dissapointed but will understand. also you shouldnt be having sex in 9th grade. Habve you taken a test yet to prove that you are pregnent? if not there is a chance that you may not be.
2006-12-22 08:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋