im 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, and I'm madly in love with him. I can picture myself with him when I'm older and could never imagine being apart. He goes away for college( an hour away) and i stay home for school. I don't get to see him much so it gets really hard. Its almost like being single but being tied down at the same time. Anyways, last night my bestfriend had some people over to play wine pong. I usually never drink so i got pretty tanked fast. So as the night went on i kept flirting with this guy( I've known him for about a month). I was so drunk, i didn't even realize what i was doing. The next thing i know were making out and fooling around. Eventually our clothes were off. He slde inside of me for like 5 seconds and then i said that i couldn't cuz i have a bf. He said ok and we stopped right then. Now i feel guilty and feel like i should tell my boyfrined. I love him though and dont want to ruin what we have. what should i do?
2006-12-22 07:49:16 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
honesty is the best policy! If he truly loves you he will understand! If not, then at least you found out now instead of 10 years and 4 kids from now! Good luck!
Merry Christmas
2006-12-22 07:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how much you drink. Alcohol didn't make that decision to let him put his wiener where it didn't belong. You knew perfectly well what you were getting into. You best just hope no one else knows about this, if anyone else does spill your guts. You will get dumped if your man is smart but it's better to find out from you. IF you can live with the guilt and no one knows keep it to yourself and stay faithful and let him go so he can find someone who is.
2006-12-22 16:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in Honesty.If you truely love him out of RESPECT for your bf you should tell him the truth.How would you feel it the shoe was on the other foot?? I think you would want to know. Plus in the end Guilt will eat at yea.So I think you bf deserves to know the truth.
2006-12-22 16:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♥AsH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is always the best way. If he can't forgive you, then so be it, you don't want a relationship full of secrets. How would you feel if it were the other way around? He may just forgive you.
2006-12-22 15:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for Miss America. You're the perfect role model
2006-12-22 15:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him.. you'll only continue to feel guilty if you don't. If he loves you he'll understand that you made a mistake and will forgive you.
2006-12-22 16:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth b/c if you don't and he found out by himself and found out that you kept it from him the he would be even more mad...good luck and happy holidays!!
2006-12-22 15:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep it to yourself dont ruin what you have for a 5 second mistake take a shower ba forget about it
2006-12-22 15:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confess it and stop drinking as well. i stopped drinking and poured my black label in the sink.. getting drunk made me sleep with a prostitute and am still not yet out of it. havent spoken to my wife while she is in another country
2006-12-22 16:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by dalal h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hun if it was only 4 5 secs then i wouldnt worry bout it ...
2006-12-22 23:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋