My sister married Aaron about 3 years ago,and when I met him for the first time,I noticed he was exceptionally depressed..not sure why. But since then I began to see him more often and gradually when my sister wasn't at home we began our affair because he told me he wasnt happy with my sister...what should I do? Murder my sister?
2006-12-22 07:23:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for sure, bury her deep and don't forget to get rid of the dog, he might dig her up.
2006-12-22 07:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I can't believe you are sleeping with your sister's husband. What is wrong with you? It is none of your business if he is unhappy. Who are you to cut in and try to comfort him. Most situations the male who is willing to cheat one his wife lies to the one he is cheating with as well as his wife. So whatever bad mouthing he's doing about your sister I am sure is way exaggerated. You should feel ashamed. And obviously you dont.
You need to tell you sister what has been going on and I dont mean at Christmas Dinner infront of everyone. Then you need to go to church. Whatever morals you had if you had any are misplaced and you need to get your life back on track. People like you make me sick.
But the humorous part of the situation is when you tell your sister more chances than not you and Aaron wont be together anymore. He will either beg your sister to forgive him or ditch the both of you.
I hope your sister and Aaron will be able to work things out and if they dont that your sister will be able to move on and not doubt every man she encounters. Aaron of course is to blame in this as well but I think you the most because your family. Your lucky your not my sister cause I would kick your *** and probably bury you. Hope you fall in love with someone that you cant live without and I hope he rips your heart out!
2006-12-22 08:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by a_dollier 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and your sister have more in common than you realize. When a guy marries a girl, he thinks that she will stay the same. When a girl marries a guy, she has changing the habbits that she doesn't like in mind. He is looking for the unmarried version of her. Help them both by giving him some distance. Let them work it out. Chances are, if you two get married, he will fall into the same depression and you will end up with less than when you started.
2006-12-22 08:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by mojonah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is a joke question. I think it might be because you ask
if you should "murder my sister?"
but in the event it isn't, HE'S A PIG and you're falling for this
line of crap. Your loyalty is to your sister, tell her what's is
going on so she can get rid of this looser.
You still might be able to repair your relationship with your sister
even though you have already slept with this LOOSER, but
blood is thicker than water and she may forgive your indiscretion.
What would your parents think of you, that they raised a
****.....Do yourself a favor and start your confession now and
start your penance, no matter how difficult it's going to be.
Good luck and do the right thing.
2006-12-22 07:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break it off now and learn from this experiance. NEVER put yourself in a posistion to be emotionaly attached to anyone's husband. Don't do lunch, or just chat on the phone. At fist you were probably just trying to be there for him, you were just a sholder he could lean on. Most times, these things start out very innocently, then gradually they turn into soemthing more serions.. You have already hurt your sister enough. Hopefully she can repair her marriage, if she still wants to. please learn from this situation so that you never, never repeat this mistake. I am sorry for your sister though, she has been betrayed by not just one, but two people who are supposed to love and respect her.
2006-12-22 08:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have or had a sister just like you, and you know something she did the same thing twisted it all around so that I got the blame; took me a long time to get the truth out, because no one believed me and they all knew about it before I even did. My family knew from the get go what she and he were doing behind my back, but I had to find out on my own, and you know something they sided with her!
Thank God he wasn't my husband.
You are not her sister.
2006-12-22 07:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Remove yourself from the situation. Never let a guy get inbetween the relationship you have with your sibling. It's not worth it. If he was truly unhappy, he would get a divorce. I think he might just be taking advance of you, since you are allowing yourself to disrespect your sister by having an affair with her husband.
2006-12-22 07:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know that they could dedicate a whole season of Jerry Springer to this kind of low behavior...but all I have for you is that I hope the sex is great; because you aren't going to get any in Hell--though you will have company to share your eternity with--your sister's husband. Enjoy it while you can.
2006-12-22 07:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cant believe you did your sister like that.She will find out, and she will never trust you again.He will end up kicking you to the curb, then you have lost your lover and your sister not to mention the whole family when they find out about it.
2006-12-22 14:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK IT OFF !!!!!!!
TABOO!!!!!!!!!!!!
BAD CHOICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whether he's happy with your sister or not is none of your concern!
You have no right to get involved.
Your only going to make things worse for him.
How do you know if they are unhappy, HE told you. How do you know he's not playing you.
God brought these two together, you can't take them apart, it's wrong!
And to even suggest murder, are you insane or just plain stupid!
If your just joking, that's a sick joke!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-22 08:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by freakyforjesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummmmm? ok... ms. crazy.
Keep taking all that crap. You're soooooooooooooooo NOT funny.
Out of your own mouth when you speak those kinds of things you can actually speak them into existance. So hopefully you're just a person with a REALLY sad, unbalanced sense of humor... because it sure wouldn't be very funny if something similar happens to you.....
2006-12-22 07:39:10 · answer #11 · answered by 247 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋