what do i do .
2006-12-22 06:59:33 · 18 answers · asked by nnene s 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
What do you mean "without knowing?" It sounds like you DO know...
2006-12-22 07:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Haven 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if you're saying that your husband has another child or will have another child outside; I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I have been married 2 years and we have a 2 year old toddler. A few months ago, we were on a brink of getting a divorce because I found out that he had an outside baby girl with another woman. I just recently found out that she is not his daughter (I was so relieved). But when I first found out, my heart felt like it broke in a million pieces. I fell on my knees and prayed to God to help me through this time of desperation and heartbrokenness. He gave me a joy inside and especially since I've given my life to Him. Just lean to Jesus and He will help you if you turn to Him. I hope this helped.!
2006-12-22 07:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DAMN i hate when people are difficult...u all know what she means, she's obviously just finding this out about her husband. Honey- that's your husband. Only you can handle this. I would advise you to get some counseling to get through this with ur husband. I would never tell a woman to leave her husband unless he's beatin tha crap outta her or sumin like that. Anyhoo, like i said, the decision is urs, i only told u to stick with him because its what I WOULD DO, but i'm not married to this man, living in ur home, going through life w/ him. I hope you do what's best for you and your children. Good luck with everything!!!!
2006-12-22 07:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm confused. Do you or don't you know if your husband is having a child with someone?
2006-12-22 07:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by ThinkaboutThis 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How can you not know if you are asking the question. Isn't it obvious that he has been having an affair? Either you are stupid withe the question that you are asking or you just don't want to face the Truth of what is really going on.
2006-12-22 07:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy20us 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you love your husband? if you do you would be able to for give him. but it will be very hard to for get because he will have to take care of the other baby. And then you will end up asking your self what did you did wrong. and again at the end is how much you love your husband. Good luck!
p.s.
what ever decision you make is going to be all right
2006-12-22 07:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by <3♥Judy♥<3 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Before you do anything make sure your right in your statement. You dont want to accuse him of doing something that he did not do.
Pray to make the right decision if he has cheated. I hope you are okay
2006-12-22 07:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tina C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know your husband is having a child with someone, then how do you know to ask this? I don't understand the question
2006-12-22 07:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
First go to your Doctor get checked for STD's. Then call a lawyer..file for divorce.
2006-12-22 07:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by broc1212 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why don't you leave the jerk. ? he will have to pay you child support and i cant spell it but you know that allomny or something. you deserve better. good luck.
2006-12-22 07:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋