We haven't had a personal relationship for years and he sent me quite a substantial gift for my infant daughter whom he has never met. I feel obligated to send him a gift. Any ideas??
2006-12-22 06:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
Nice picture frame w/ your daughter's pic in it. No wrong ideas that way...
2006-12-22 07:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be reaching out to you. Whether or not you want to pursue a new relationship with him, you should not feel obligated to reciprocate his generous gift with a gift that means nothing to you. Gifts that are received out of obligation aren't very comfortable to receive. Either send a card thanking him for his kind gift and wishing him well in the new year.
If you would like to send a gift, I'd sent food--a nice basket from Hickory Farms (Amazon has food baskets as well) or flowers.
2006-12-22 07:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by kimpenn09 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is definitely trying to re-establish the relationship with you again , so we have to possibilities here :
1. if you like the idea of re-establishing the relationship then get him some gift that gives him the feeling that you love him so much , a big box of fine chocolate will do the job , at
http://astore.amazon.com/chocolate-20 you can find the finest chocolate I have ever seen.
2. if you are not interested in a new relation with him " I hope this is not your choice " then send him back an ordinary gift , men always like electronics , so have a look at amazon electronics store
http://astore.amazon.com/electron-20 and choose a good gift for him.
2006-12-22 07:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say a nice xmas card with a picture of you and your daughter together, and say thank you for the gift it meant alot to you. and if you want maybe a gift card of somesort....
2006-12-22 08:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by roxybeach793 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a nice thank you card and some money/giftcard?
2006-12-22 07:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by leiar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋