Lets say that you like this man/woman and one of your close friend knows you like them, but they still go after them or they firt with them.
First, Being their close friend, would you even try to go after them? Do you think that is wrong and why
second, have this happened to you? what did you do? was you still friends with them?
2006-12-22 06:58:09 · 9 answers · asked by you people 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If this friend knows you're interested and they still pursue this person, they are starting some competition. This person is probably not wanting you to have any attention, or anyone new to be close to. It's a disregard for your feelings. They probably have some insecurity issues to deal with. Be straight up and ask what's going on.
2006-12-22 07:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if my friend new I had a crush on a guy and she started flirting with him. I would not call her a true friend!!! Friends stick together thru thick and thin and don't compete against each other. Remember good friends are the rare jewels of life, difficult to find and impossible to replace.. Good luck to you!!!
2006-12-22 15:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea It occured to me also. The guy told my girl (or now ex) that we are not really close friends with him. Now I don't call anybody my friend. Friends can really betray. Very often. Just watch out. That's the only advise I have for you.
2006-12-22 15:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, if they knew you liked him/her, if they were a true friend, they wouldn't flirt or try to go after him. But i would talk to them cuz sometimes my friends don't know when they're flirting so maybe they're just being their selves. So just talk to them and get their side of the story.
2006-12-22 15:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by anna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm... a person who hits on the person they know you like, is not your friend. that person has some issues to work out. seriously. self esteem issues. usually they keep doing the same thing over and over, so my advice is to be careful. and with the person you like... go for it! you saw them first, you've got dibs :P
2006-12-22 15:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Andrei C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question!! puts forward a trade-off between love and friendship. We make choices in life right - make one!!
2006-12-22 15:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by ashu2sinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront my friend and tell her did she forget that i liked him, but i wouldn't be violent or end a friendship, because boys come and go and they arent worth a good friendship.
2006-12-22 15:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by forever T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has happen to me before! my friend went out with a boy i liked and me and her are not friends any more! my friend is a hor!
2006-12-22 15:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did it, but we're not friends anymore.
2006-12-22 14:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋